No judgementalism here.
Big difference in the online world between hooking up (casual encounters) and paying a sex worker for services (erotic services), though, and from your description, you sound like you engage in the former. Precision in terminology is paramount here. If you're posting an ad seeking a hook up with no monetary exchange, no screening process, no two call system, etc, and are not advertising your own sexual services in exchange for money, then you're into casual encounters, a different system than what I'm addressing. The online equivalent of picking up someone in a bar is a way different world, and process, than patronizing a professional sex worker online. There are some pretty specific rules and rituals for how escorts, massueses, etc interact with customers online.
Craigslist charges erotic services advertisers (not their customers - I don't think they're allowed to even post in Erotic Services anymore) $10/post (at last count) and requires they keep a working phone number and credit card on file, which CL moderators call to verify before allowing ads to be posted. CL must keep a paper trail it turns over to police upon supeona. The LE crackdown on CL erotic services a few years ago, and CL's response, was extremely well-publicized.
No such moderation or record-keeping exists for casual encounters or other adult-oriented categories.
Big difference in the online world between hooking up (casual encounters) and paying a sex worker for services (erotic services), though, and from your description, you sound like you engage in the former. Precision in terminology is paramount here. If you're posting an ad seeking a hook up with no monetary exchange, no screening process, no two call system, etc, and are not advertising your own sexual services in exchange for money, then you're into casual encounters, a different system than what I'm addressing. The online equivalent of picking up someone in a bar is a way different world, and process, than patronizing a professional sex worker online. There are some pretty specific rules and rituals for how escorts, massueses, etc interact with customers online.
Craigslist charges erotic services advertisers (not their customers - I don't think they're allowed to even post in Erotic Services anymore) $10/post (at last count) and requires they keep a working phone number and credit card on file, which CL moderators call to verify before allowing ads to be posted. CL must keep a paper trail it turns over to police upon supeona. The LE crackdown on CL erotic services a few years ago, and CL's response, was extremely well-publicized.
No such moderation or record-keeping exists for casual encounters or other adult-oriented categories.