I'm going to admit up front that I don't have much of a dog in this hunt. While Chik-Fil-A has the right to say what they want to say, they must also face the consequences of those words. I don't agree with them, nor do I eat there (Not a fan of fast food fried chicken in general, so it's not a big deal to me)...
I think that's what a majority of us in this thread are saying.
However, I've heard a few things in other places for the past few days that make me wish we, as a society, were more fair in our protestations.
So, either we protest EVERYTHING or we shouldn't protest anything? Everything is equal in your eyes, then?
CFA doesn't support the killing of homosexuals, they simply support groups who support "traditional marriage."... Yet we all drive cars that run on oil, a large part of which comes from OPEC. Don't the more radical sects of the Muslim faith call for the execution of homosexuals? Where are the protests?
The problem is you're not comparing apples here, you're comparing a company that sells chicken to those who control a lot of the oil. It would be more fair to compare Chick-Fil-A with
Exxon Mobil. Otherwise, you're argument is that a company that sells fast-food chicken should be compared with Muslim countries which produce oil. You might as well go back and find out what the farmers who raised the chickens think and feel about this subject.
In Chicago and Boston, there are thriving muslim communities and they are welcomed with open arms.
*sigh* Your argument is sounding a lot like "The Jews control Hollywood," but you replace "Jews" with "Muslims" and "Hollywood" with "oil." You do realize those in the Muslim communities in Chicago and Boston are not the same ones who control OPEC, right? And, there could, possibly be some Muslims in those communities who support equal rights for homosexuals, right?
In fact, Chicago Mayor Rahm Emanual lauded Louis Farrakhan's group for their stance on crime earlier this month. Didn't Farrakhan just recently take President Obama to task for his flip flop on gay marriage? Farrakhan and his followers are just as homophobic as the CFA owner. Where's the protest?
Tell you what, if Louis Farrakhan opens up a fast-food restaurant, I'll protest that one as well. I'm no fan of Farrakhan or Rahm Emmanuel, for that matter. But, living in Florida, should I make up a sign and protest on a local street corner?
I just want some fairness. No side is clean in this debate.
Except one side wants equal rights and the other group is actively working to take those rights away. You're absolutely right though that it's not a fair fight. Speaking just for those of us on the board who are against Chick-Fil-A's stance and are against their support of anti-homosexual organizations, we seem (and my fellow posters can correct me if I'm wrong) to be average citizens on one side, protesting an organization. We don't have the money behind us of a corporation, we just have our wallets.
And if I want to avoid giving my money to Chick-Fil-A, I think that's my right. I don't see why, to fit your view of fairness, I also have to boycott gas stations, and the mayor of Chicago to be "equal."
And, unless I misread something, I never saw
anyone in the thread argue that the government should prevent Chick-Fil-A from donating their money to these charities. I've seen the argument that the government should be involved in making sure their hiring practices are non-discriminatory. But no one I've seen has argued that Dan Cathy should not have the right to give his and his corporation's money to whatever charities he wants to.
If anything, the unfairness is on their side, since, as much of a difference as I'd like it to make, I don't think the money I spent at Chick-Fil-A over the past six months (since I don't go there often) makes one damn bit of difference to them. Meanwhile, they are making millions of dollars.
Edited to add: I don't see you arguing that those supporting Chick-Fil-A should only support organizations and groups that are anti-equality for homosexuals. Again, your argument seems to be that if we disagree with Chick-Fil-A, we must do everything possible to disagree with every other group and person who agrees with their stance. Yet, I don't see you arguing the opposite. Why should the supporters of Chick-Fil-A get to support them and then get to order from Amazon.com without being accused of being unfair in their protests?