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Characters in relationships

It'll be interesting to see where her and Konya go from here. In the last book if I remember I think they both were interested in maybe pursuing something a bit more serious. In some ways I see parellels with zh'Thinn and Dr. Barai from the Prometheus books (actually another potential relationship for the list if Prometheus is being included), something casual with the door open to something more serious. And Chen's exploring a previously ignored part of herself might be similar to Soleta in the NF series.

Seeing as I haven't read the Prometheus books and I think I read the New Frontier books back when I was in high school via the library and don't actually own any of them, I haven't added them to the lists, but feel free to do so if you have.
 
Ro dated Quark for a while. They are still friends. What is going on with Altek Dans?
 
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Ro dated Quark for a while. They are still friends. What is going on with tAltek Dans?

Hopefully we find out if there is ever a new DS9 book. I'm curious about that myself, esp. with Odo back in the picture, sort of.
 
Shar is now a widower - his bondmates and child were killed during the Borg invasion (as per "Paths of Disharmony").

Kristen Richter and Etana Kol (both nurses on DS9, although Etana was formerly security) were seen as dating during the first phase of the DS9 relaunch novels ("Fearful Symmetry" et al). By the time of the second phase ("Raise the Dawn"), they had married (I postulate this was also during the Borg invasion).

Ranul Keru and Rowan Badowski (security chief and transporter chief of Titan resp) are dating and I think cohabiting as of "Fortunes of War".

Xin Ra-Havreii and Melora Pazlar (chief engineer and chief science officer of Titan resp) were dating since "Lost Souls" but have broken up (rather acrimoniously) as of "Fortunes of War".

Julian Bashir and Sarina Douglas were dating as of "Zero Sum Game", but she is now deceased as of "Control".

Elim Garak and Kelas Parmak are cohabiting and implied-with-a-sledgehammer to be a couple as of "Enigma Tales".

Elias Vaughn and Ruriko Tenmei were dating and co-parents of Prynn Tenmei (I don't think it was ever explicitly established that they were married). She is deceased as of "Lesser Evil", he is deceased as of "Raise the Dawn".

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Captain Calhoun and Admiral Elizabeth Shelby are married.

Robin Leffler and Si Cwan were married, he is now deceased.

Burgoyne 172 and Dr. Selar had a relationship, but broke up.

Kat Mueller and Calhoun were former lovers.
 
Also Dr Selar is now deceased. They have a child, Xyon who because of his unusual DNA is growing at a rapid rate, but was cured after Selar found a cure (which was led to her death).

Calhoun also has a son, Xyon. He also has an adopted son, Moke.

Soleta also had a, um, encounter with Calhoun (I'm reluctant to call it rape because there was some extenuating circumstances). However as a result she is now pregnant.

Finally, last we saw in NF Lefler may be in a relationship with McHenry. Not sure where that is headed.

All one of the reasons I hope we see a continuance of New Frontier at some point. :)
 
Shar is now a widower - his bondmates and child were killed during the Borg invasion (as per "Paths of Disharmony").

Kristen Richter and Etana Kol (both nurses on DS9, although Etana was formerly security) were seen as dating during the first phase of the DS9 relaunch novels ("Fearful Symmetry" et al). By the time of the second phase ("Raise the Dawn"), they had married (I postulate this was also during the Borg invasion).

Ranul Keru and Rowan Badowski (security chief and transporter chief of Titan resp) are dating and I think cohabiting as of "Fortunes of War".

Xin Ra-Havreii and Melora Pazlar (chief engineer and chief science officer of Titan resp) were dating since "Lost Souls" but have broken up (rather acrimoniously) as of "Fortunes of War".

Julian Bashir and Sarina Douglas were dating as of "Zero Sum Game", but she is now deceased as of "Control".

Elim Garak and Kelas Parmak are cohabiting and implied-with-a-sledgehammer to be a couple as of "Enigma Tales".

Elias Vaughn and Ruriko Tenmei were dating and co-parents of Prynn Tenmei (I don't think it was ever explicitly established that they were married). She is deceased as of "Lesser Evil", he is deceased as of "Raise the Dawn".

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Vaughn and Tenmei were married. I just checked Memory Beta and while there doesn’t seem to have been any mention of when their wedding was, Vaughn was described as being a widower in a couple of books.
 
Once again, thank you everybody for all the help. As I read through these lists, I recalled each and every one of them (with the exception of the New Frontier stuff, which as I mentioned earlier I haven't read in years).

Other relationships I've got include Cmdr. Riker and Ens. Ro's one-night stand while under amnesia, Capt. Picard's former relationship with JAG Capt. Phillipa Louvois, Cmdr. (Dr.) Crusher dating the late Amb. Odan, Cmdr. Spock and Lt. Uhura in ST09, Col. Shaun G. Christopher and Alice Fontana, Capt. Kang and Mara's marriage, and all of Capt. Kirk's various one-episode (past) relationships.

Diving back into the Myriad Universes, I believe Dukat and Kira were in a relationship and Princeps Bashir was the owner/lover of Helot Ezri Dax in "Seeds of Dissent".

More to come as I remember/find them.
 
Hey, guys, I'm hoping you all can help me out with something. I'm trying to recall/make a list of all the characters that are, as of their current episode/film/novel, in relationships (and when they started).

So far, I've got:
  • Married:
    • Cmdr. Tuvok & T'Pel (m. 2304 - "Caretaker")
    • Adm. John Harriman & Capt. Amina Sasine-Harriman (m. 2311 - Serpents Among the Ruins/One Constant Star)
    • Amb. Spock & Capt. Saavik (m. 2327 - Vulcan's Heart/Soul trilogy, possibly out of sync with current novel-verse continuity)
    • SCPO Miles O'Brien & Keiko O'Brien (m. October 24, 2367 - "Data's Day")
    • Grand Nagus Rom & Leeta (m. 2373 - "Call to Arms")
    • Capt. Ben Sisko & Kasidy Yates-Sisko (m. 2375 - "’Til Death Do Us Part")
    • Lt. Cmdr. Tom Paris & Lt. Cmdr. B'Elanna Torres (m. 2377 - "Drive")
    • R-Adm. Will Riker & Cmdr. Deanna Troi (m. 2379 - Nemesis)
    • Capt. Jean-Luc Picard & Cmdr. (Dr.) Beverly Crusher (m. 2380 - Greater Than the Sum)
  • Widowed:
    • Sarek, widower of Amanda Grayson (m. 2227, d. 2293/2311 (I've seen both dates) - TOS)
    • Lt. Worf, widower of K'Ehyler (m. 2365, d. 2367 - TNG)
    • Perrin Landover, widow of Amb. Sarek (Ret.) (m. 2328, d. 2368 - TNG)
    • Lt. Cmdr. Worf, widower of Lt. Cmdr. Jadzia Dax (m. 2374, d. 2374 - DS9)
    • Martok, widower of Sirella (m. 2340s, d. 2376 - "You Are Cordially Invited", The Left Hand of Destiny)
    • Julia Paris, widow of Adm. Owen Paris (m. 2330s/40s, d. February 2381 - VOY/Destiny)
  • Divorced:
  • Engaged:
    • Lt. Cmdr. Takaishi Kimura (Ret.) & Lt. Cmdr. Hoshi Sato (engaged: 2165 - ENT: ROTF)
  • Dating:
    • S31 Agt. Charles "Trip" Tucker & Capt. T'Pol (2150s/2160s - ENT; possibly married by 2186 - To Brave the Storm)
    • Adm. Jonathan Archer & Danica Erickson (2164 - ENT: ROTF)
    • Lt. Sam Kirk & Lt. Valeria Williams (2164 - ENT: ROTF)
    • Gen. Klag & Lt. B'Oraq (2376 - A Burning House) (possibly married by 2381)
    • Capt. Chakotay & V-Adm. Kathryn Janeway (2379-2380, 2381 - The Eternal Tide)
    • Lt. Harry Kim & Lt. Nancy Conlon (2381/82 - Protectors)
Also, depending on the book, it seems like Cmdr. Geordi La Forge is in a (non-exclusive) relationship with both Leah Brahms and Dr. Tamala Harstad at the same time.

I know there's plenty I'm missing, but there's a start. Thanks for the help.
Was Worf ever married to K’Ehlyer? As I recall it was more of a one night stand, at which point Worf initiated the Klingon engagement/wedding ritual, but K’Ehlyer rebuked him and didn’t accept his proposal, and then left him and didn’t tell him about her pregnancy until a year later at which point she was killed and Worf basically said that they’d had a one night stand, and was her mate, so that he could kill Duras.
 
Was Worf ever married to K’Ehlyer? As I recall it was more of a one night stand, at which point Worf initiated the Klingon engagement/wedding ritual, but K’Ehlyer rebuked him and didn’t accept his proposal, and then left him and didn’t tell him about her pregnancy until a year later at which point she was killed and Worf basically said that they’d had a one night stand, and was her mate, so that he could kill Duras.

I believe they married just prior to her being murdered by Duras.
 
I believe they married just prior to her being murdered by Duras.
No they weren’t since in “Reunion”, while K’Helyer was willing to marry Worf, he had a change of heart because of his discommendation and he didn’t want to share his dishonour with her or Alexander. And after their talk about it, the episode made it look like they didn’t see each other until Worf brought Alexander back because K’Helyer was doing her own research on Worf’s discommendation which lead to her showdown with Duras.
 
No they weren’t since in “Reunion”, while K’Helyer was willing to marry Worf, he had a change of heart because of his discommendation and he didn’t want to share his dishonour with her or Alexander. And after their talk about it, the episode made it look like they didn’t see each other until Worf brought Alexander back because K’Helyer was doing her own research on Worf’s discommendation which lead to her showdown with Duras.

Ok, that's right. I was confusing her change of heart with some of what went on with "Emissary" when he started the ceremony and she stopped it. I think I was mixing some of the two together but yeah, now I remember his change of heart.
 
So far, we've got the following couples:
  • Married:
    • Skon & T'Rama
    • Adm. Shran & his shelthreth party, including Special Aenar Representative to the UFP Thirijhamel "Jhamel" zh'Dhaven
    • Capt. Atish Khatami has a never-seen but often-referred to (if I remember correctly) husband and child on Deneva
      Cmdr. Tuvok & T'Pel
    • Adm. John Harriman & Capt. Amina Sasine-Harriman
    • Capt. David Gold & Rabbi Rachel Gilman
    • Amb. Spock & Capt. Saavik
    • SCPO Miles O'Brien & Keiko O'Brien
    • Grand Nagus Rom & Leeta
    • Capt. Ben Sisko & Kasidy Yates-Sisko
    • Jake Sisko & Azeni Korena
    • Lt. Cmdr. Tom Paris & Lt. Cmdr. B'Elanna Torres
    • R-Adm. Will Riker & Cmdr. Deanna Troi
    • Capt. Jean-Luc Picard & Cmdr. (Dr.) Beverly Crusher
    • Lt. (j.g.) Krissten Richter & Ens. Etana Kol
  • Widowed/both deceased simultaneously:
    • Sarek, widower of Amanda Grayson
    • Amb. Lwaxana Troi, widow of Lt. Cmdr. Ian Troi
    • Lt. Cmdr. Ben Sisko, widower of Jennifer Sisko
    • Lt. Worf, widower of K'Ehyler (marriage status ambiguous)
    • Perrin Landover, widow of Amb. Sarek (Ret.)
    • Lt. (Ns./Dr.) Alyssa Ogawa, widow of Lt. Andrew Powell
    • Lt. Cmdr. Worf, widower of Lt. Cmdr. Jadzia Dax
    • Martok, widower of Sirella
    • Julia Paris, widow of Adm. Owen Paris
    • Lt. Shar ch'Thane (Ret.), widower of his shelthreth party
    • Tuvok's son Eilith and his wife Ione Kitain were both killed in the Borg attack on Deneva
  • Divorced:
    • Adm. (Dr.) Leonard McCoy (Ret.) & his ex-wife Jocelyn
    • Former Cdre. Diego Reyes & his ex-wife Jeanne Vinueza
    • Ven Keldarren & Capt. Rachel Garrett
    • Rom & Phinadora
    • Agt. Marion Dulmur, DTI & Megumi Dulmur
  • Engaged:
    • Lt. Cmdr. Takashi Kimura (Ret.) & Lt. Cmdr. Hoshi Sato
    • Asst. Dir. Marion Dulmur & Cymmen-vennau-roonixx
  • Ex-fiancées:
    • Mark Johnson & Capt. Kathryn Janeway
  • Dating:
    • S31 Agt. Charles "Trip" Tucker & Capt. T'Pol (possibly married by 2186)
    • Adm. Jonathan Archer & Danica Erickson
    • Lt. Sam Kirk & Lt. Valeria Williams
    • Capt. Malcolm Reed & Capt. Caroline Paris
    • Former Cdre. Diego Ryes & Capt. Rana Desai
    • CPO Vance Hawkins & Crew. Carol Abromowitz
    • Gen. Klag & Lt. B'Oraq (possibly married by 2381)
    • Capt. Chakotay & V-Adm. Kathryn Janeway
    • Lt. Harry Kim & Lt. Nancy Conlon
    • Lt. Cmdr. Ranul Keru & Lt. Bowan Radowski
    • Lt. Rennan Konya & Lt. T'Ryssa Chen
    • Lt. Gary Weinreb & Lt. Dina Elfiki (although I can't remember if helmsman Weinreb is a full Lieutenant or a Lieutenant, junior grade)
  • Dating/deceased:
    • Amb. Odan was killed while dating Cmdr. (Dr.) Beverly Crusher
    • Lt. Sean Hawk was KIA while dating Lt. Ranul Keru
    • Lt. Cmdr. Kieran Duffy was KIA while dating (awaiting her answer to his marriage proposal) Cmdr. Sonya Gomez
    • Lt. Cmdr. Jaza Najem was KIA while dating Cmdr. Christine Vale
    • Lt. Jasminder Choudhury was KIA while dating Cmdr. Worf
    • S31 Agent Sarina Douglas was killed while dating former Cmdr. (Dr.) Julian Bashir
  • Former couples/broke up:
    • Lt. Reynaldo Sangupta & Lt. Valeria Williams
    • Capt. James Kirk & Carol Marcus
    • Lt. Haniff Jackson & Capt. Rana Desai
    • Kyle Riker & Cmdr. (Dr.) Katherine Pulaski
    • Capt. Jean-Luc Picard & Lt. Cmdr. Nella Daren
    • Lt. Worf & Cmdr. Deanna Troi
    • Odo & Col. Kira Nerys
    • Cmdr. (Dr.) Julian Bashir & Lt. Ezri Dax
    • Crew. Bart Faulwell & Lt. Cmdr. Anthony Mack
    • Lt. Cmdr. Taurik and Lt. T'Ryssa Chen
  • One-night stands:
    • Cmdr. Will Riker & Ens. Ro Laren
    • Lt. Cmdr. Worf & Lt. (j.g.) Ezri Dax
Please, feel free to tell me if I've forgotten any or made a mistake. Thanks for all the help!
 
So far, we've got the following couples:
  • Married:
    • Skon & T'Rama
    • Adm. Shran & his shelthreth party, including Special Aenar Representative to the UFP Thirijhamel "Jhamel" zh'Dhaven
    • Capt. Atish Khatami has a never-seen but often-referred to (if I remember correctly) husband and child on Deneva
      Cmdr. Tuvok & T'Pel
    • Adm. John Harriman & Capt. Amina Sasine-Harriman
    • Capt. David Gold & Rabbi Rachel Gilman
    • Amb. Spock & Capt. Saavik
    • SCPO Miles O'Brien & Keiko O'Brien
    • Grand Nagus Rom & Leeta
    • Capt. Ben Sisko & Kasidy Yates-Sisko
    • Jake Sisko & Azeni Korena
    • Lt. Cmdr. Tom Paris & Lt. Cmdr. B'Elanna Torres
    • R-Adm. Will Riker & Cmdr. Deanna Troi
    • Capt. Jean-Luc Picard & Cmdr. (Dr.) Beverly Crusher
    • Lt. (j.g.) Krissten Richter & Ens. Etana Kol
  • Widowed/both deceased simultaneously:
    • Sarek, widower of Amanda Grayson
    • Amb. Lwaxana Troi, widow of Lt. Cmdr. Ian Troi
    • Lt. Cmdr. Ben Sisko, widower of Jennifer Sisko
    • Lt. Worf, widower of K'Ehyler (marriage status ambiguous)
    • Perrin Landover, widow of Amb. Sarek (Ret.)
    • Lt. (Ns./Dr.) Alyssa Ogawa, widow of Lt. Andrew Powell
    • Lt. Cmdr. Worf, widower of Lt. Cmdr. Jadzia Dax
    • Martok, widower of Sirella
    • Julia Paris, widow of Adm. Owen Paris
    • Lt. Shar ch'Thane (Ret.), widower of his shelthreth party
    • Tuvok's son Eilith and his wife Ione Kitain were both killed in the Borg attack on Deneva
  • Divorced:
    • Adm. (Dr.) Leonard McCoy (Ret.) & his ex-wife Jocelyn
    • Former Cdre. Diego Reyes & his ex-wife Jeanne Vinueza
    • Ven Keldarren & Capt. Rachel Garrett
    • Rom & Phinadora
    • Agt. Marion Dulmur, DTI & Megumi Dulmur
  • Engaged:
    • Lt. Cmdr. Takashi Kimura (Ret.) & Lt. Cmdr. Hoshi Sato
    • Asst. Dir. Marion Dulmur & Cymmen-vennau-roonixx
  • Ex-fiancées:
    • Mark Johnson & Capt. Kathryn Janeway
  • Dating:
    • S31 Agt. Charles "Trip" Tucker & Capt. T'Pol (possibly married by 2186)
    • Adm. Jonathan Archer & Danica Erickson
    • Lt. Sam Kirk & Lt. Valeria Williams
    • Capt. Malcolm Reed & Capt. Caroline Paris
    • Former Cdre. Diego Ryes & Capt. Rana Desai
    • CPO Vance Hawkins & Crew. Carol Abromowitz
    • Gen. Klag & Lt. B'Oraq (possibly married by 2381)
    • Capt. Chakotay & V-Adm. Kathryn Janeway
    • Lt. Harry Kim & Lt. Nancy Conlon
    • Lt. Cmdr. Ranul Keru & Lt. Bowan Radowski
    • Lt. Rennan Konya & Lt. T'Ryssa Chen
    • Lt. Gary Weinreb & Lt. Dina Elfiki (although I can't remember if helmsman Weinreb is a full Lieutenant or a Lieutenant, junior grade)
  • Dating/deceased:
    • Amb. Odan was killed while dating Cmdr. (Dr.) Beverly Crusher
    • Lt. Sean Hawk was KIA while dating Lt. Ranul Keru
    • Lt. Cmdr. Kieran Duffy was KIA while dating (awaiting her answer to his marriage proposal) Cmdr. Sonya Gomez
    • Lt. Cmdr. Jaza Najem was KIA while dating Cmdr. Christine Vale
    • Lt. Jasminder Choudhury was KIA while dating Cmdr. Worf
    • S31 Agent Sarina Douglas was killed while dating former Cmdr. (Dr.) Julian Bashir
  • Former couples/broke up:
    • Lt. Reynaldo Sangupta & Lt. Valeria Williams
    • Capt. James Kirk & Carol Marcus
    • Lt. Haniff Jackson & Capt. Rana Desai
    • Kyle Riker & Cmdr. (Dr.) Katherine Pulaski
    • Capt. Jean-Luc Picard & Lt. Cmdr. Nella Daren
    • Lt. Worf & Cmdr. Deanna Troi
    • Odo & Col. Kira Nerys
    • Cmdr. (Dr.) Julian Bashir & Lt. Ezri Dax
    • Crew. Bart Faulwell & Lt. Cmdr. Anthony Mack
    • Lt. Cmdr. Taurik and Lt. T'Ryssa Chen
  • One-night stands:
    • Cmdr. Will Riker & Ens. Ro Laren
    • Lt. Cmdr. Worf & Lt. (j.g.) Ezri Dax
Please, feel free to tell me if I've forgotten any or made a mistake. Thanks for all the help!
I’d still say that Worf and K’Heyler were Dating/Deceased, as they never did go through with their marriage ceremony and they were never living together to be even a common law couple.
 
I just finished my three-day reread of the last couple TNG novels in preparation for "Available Light" next week, and I can confirm that Taurik and T'Ryssa's romantic relationship was over at the beginning of "Armageddon's Arrow". Later that book, Rennan and T'Ryssa made up and were back together by "Headlong Flight"; Weinreb and Elfiki were also confirmed as a couple in "Headlong Flight", and both relationships were still ongoing as of "Hearts and Minds". Also, for what it's worth, "Armageddon's Arrow" also establishes that Geordi and Dr. Harstad have recently moved in together in his quarters aboard Enterprise.

In related couple news, "Headlong Flight"'s Capt. Riker and Deanna Troi were also back together, although it's not explicitly stated if they were actually married or just dating (their relationship was compared to Enterprise-E's Picard and Crusher, who are married, but it's unknown if it was simply a statement along the lines of "it's about time!").
 
In related couple news, "Headlong Flight"'s Capt. Riker and Deanna Troi were also back together, although it's not explicitly stated if they were actually married or just dating (their relationship was compared to Enterprise-E's Picard and Crusher, who are married, but it's unknown if it was simply a statement along the lines of "it's about time!").

Whaaa? They got married in Nemesis (or rather, just before Nemesis, since the second scene in the film is their post-wedding reception).
 
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