Charlie Evans Prime must like the cougars. The idea that she's as old as Kirk and Spock just doesnt seem right for the character. Makes her kind of pathetic.
Lol - well, she made it quite clear that she was much older than Charlie. I think he was just fooled by the softglow machine that she took with her everwhere.
I don't think that being 36 makes Rand pathetic! She was the Captain's Yeoman which is a senior enlisted position on the ship (most probably a senior petty officer). In TMP she was a CPO, which is a senior enlisted rank and was shown to be part of the engineering team. She was equivalent to O'Brien, a (retconned) CPO of similar age to Rand who was operating as a transporter officer in TNG and I've never heard anyone suggest he was pathetic.
I was disappointed that they didn't make better use of her character overall but all of the women in TOS were woefully underused.