I went to a wedding a couple weeks ago, and my roommate and I drove together. Neither of us had dates to the wedding; we were just meeting a larger group of our friends there. The photographer came around to take pictures of everybody with their dates. So she got around to me and asked who I was with...so I pointed to my roommate and said, "Him."
She got very uncomfortable and was like, "Oh...why don't we just take a picture of the whole table?"![]()
I'm sure it happens to me. I go on man dates with my friends quite often.
Heterosexuality is the norm from which others differ, just as being right-handed is the norm from which left-handers differ, or white the norm (in most western societies) from which blacks, asians, etc. differ.
The norm or the majority? Those are two different things. It's probably safe to say that in the U.S. the majority of the population consists of Caucasians, followed by Hispanics, African-Americans, and Asians. The majority of a certain demographic, say, of people living in California from ages 18 through 65 identify as heterosexuals (rather than LGBT). A non-white person is certainly not less normal (or more normal, for that matter) than a person of Caucasian background, just as a left-handed person shouldn't be considered not normal or less normal.
You're splitting hairs to no apparent end, and you changed my words to do it. The meaning of 'normal' is highly contextual. In some cases it constitutes preferential endorsement, in others not. Obviously this is one of the times in which it did not, and yet the risk was there that my meaning could be misconstrued and so I instead went for 'norm', which drops some connotations from the table (i.e. endorsement) and adds others (i.e. prescriptive) which even more obviously do not apply in this instance. Fat lot of good that did.![]()
^In that case i might have to recheck my proclivity for the opposite sex. Im always horny!!
The norm or the majority? Those are two different things. It's probably safe to say that in the U.S. the majority of the population consists of Caucasians, followed by Hispanics, African-Americans, and Asians. The majority of a certain demographic, say, of people living in California from ages 18 through 65 identify as heterosexuals (rather than LGBT). A non-white person is certainly not less normal (or more normal, for that matter) than a person of Caucasian background, just as a left-handed person shouldn't be considered not normal or less normal.
You're splitting hairs to no apparent end, and you changed my words to do it. The meaning of 'normal' is highly contextual. In some cases it constitutes preferential endorsement, in others not. Obviously this is one of the times in which it did not, and yet the risk was there that my meaning could be misconstrued and so I instead went for 'norm', which drops some connotations from the table (i.e. endorsement) and adds others (i.e. prescriptive) which even more obviously do not apply in this instance. Fat lot of good that did.![]()
Yup, and the moon is made of green cheese. Why not just get straight to the point instead of being evasive and vague? I won't hold your personal perspectives against you.![]()
Let's not start this, gentlemen. Thanks.Yup, and the moon is made of green cheese. Why not just get straight to the point instead of being evasive and vague? I won't hold your personal perspectives against you.![]()
You're a dick.![]()
^In that case i might have to recheck my proclivity for the opposite sex. Im always horny!!
An interesting, if confusing, comment from someone who announced she was going to 'try' being gay for a while.![]()
^In that case i might have to recheck my proclivity for the opposite sex. Im always horny!!
An interesting, if confusing, comment from someone who announced she was going to 'try' being gay for a while.![]()
Well i was going to say that it explained a lot, but really i didnt think anyone would have remembered that old thread.![]()
An interesting, if confusing, comment from someone who announced she was going to 'try' being gay for a while.![]()
Well i was going to say that it explained a lot, but really i didnt think anyone would have remembered that old thread.![]()
Never underestimate my ability to remember threads that start with the statement that all men are assholes.
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