The Forge did what Amok Time did---created an alien Vulcan.Not everyone is ready or appreciative of that.Vulcan should not be the Malibu Colony IMO.
Since Angie is from Los Angeles, I'm betting she knows what it looks like.
I think her point, which I agree with, is Vulcan in Home seems human and artificial -- they knock on doors, have beds that look the human, ovens, etc. T'Pol even kisses Trip on the cheek human-style. Versus the Forge. The Forge used an after-effect color shift to make it look hotter, had people speaking in riddles, unusual animals, sand storms, discussion of Vulcan philosophy, displayed the IDIC, etc. In the Forge, Vulcan is strange and unusual, even if we see elements that remind us of humanity (a la the point about Jesus vs. Surak, and how Archer finds the story of Surak sounds "familiar").
That might be an interesting topic to determine whether people appreciated the alien-ness of other cultures or liked when those cultures were more like humans. The thing I always liked about Spock was there were elements of him that anyone could identify with, but the way those came through were from an alien perspective. I think many times it's where they missed the boat in ENT in general, especially with T'Pol.
You know, I kinda liked V'Las in The Forge; he was Vulcanlike. We see that degenerating as the arc continues, which I also liked -- it points out he's a bad guy. I always assumed he was Romulan.