I loved the NoJay Consortium in Progress.
Just watched this, it is great. Like "Meridian", another awesome B story you can totally lose track of, buried as it is by a clunky A story (though A story does get better as the ep progresses)
"THE ABANDONED" - Sisko learning more about his son than his girlfriend. I thought it was hilarious, touching, and believable.
I like this one, but last time I saw it, I came away wondering: IS it weird that the show is fine with 16 year old Jake dating a 20 year old Dabo girl? I know the point is that his son has grown up more than Sisko realized, but just as I watch it, Mardah does feel like an adult and Jake does feel like a child, in a way that I think would not play if the genders were reversed...
I rather enjoyed Rom and Leeta's wedding in Call to Arms. The annoying quirks of the characters had already been established, so anything radically different would not have stood true. They were, however, restrained in this episode.
More importantly, the wedding underlined themes present in the episode and in the development of the Ferengi in general. Amidst crisis and separation, bonds were being recognized and affirmed: Sisko to Bajor, Dax to Worf, Odo to Kira, Garak to Ziyal. Being home at the station and among the Bajorans was also being affirmed. The wedding not only fit in with both themes, it also continued Rom's development, a more mundane journey into Bajoranness than Sisko's, but one in which his commitment to family was more based on his emotions and affections than on the concepts of his culture. I find that the development of the Ferengi family in the series--from Quark being a patriarch to Rom coming into his own as a father and husband--makes an interesting counterpoint to what we see of Sisko's family life.
You make a good case for it. I do thematically like the presence of the wedding in the episode, it's the aping of "Casablanca" that throws me, it's such a jarring false note. If they had gotten that exact sentiment in without the wink-wink of lifting the actual dialogue, I'd feel much more favorably inclined towards the plot thread as a whole.