I believe Berman was right about one aspect of Trek. The further Trek is set in the future, the more 'unrealistc' it becomes.
The beauty of TOS, and Enterprise for the matter, was that they are not really that far ahead of us in terms of time. Regular people (meaning, potential new fans) could almost put their hands around it. The people on TOS, and early parts of Enterprise, were more like us.
By the time you get to TNG, the ships and people are starting to become less tangible. ENT-D was pretty much cruise ship in space. And new show placed further in the future, 25th-26th or beyond centuries, would continue going down the wrong path, IMO.
Enterprise had a GREAT concept. That crew should have been raw for the length of the series. Toward the end they should have been 'getting' it. Watching mankind's first footsteps into an unfriendly universe, via a star ship. was a great idea.
I think I still would rather have a series set in the future. Enterprise didn't work because a prequal for Star Trek was hard to do, since there was so much established between the other series/movies. I'm not bashing Enterprise, I like some of it, but I think it's difficult to make a prequal for the reasons I just said.
As for as the crew of Enterprise and of TOS acting more like us, I think the characters on DS9 did also and even Voyager. TNG was really the only show where they had everyone try to act "perfect." I noticed that the other day after watching some old episodes. DS9 had the same concept, but that was with only humans. Since humans were not thet main focus on DS9, a lot of the characters acted like us I think. And in Voyager, I believe Janeway, Chakotey, and maybe Neelix were the only ones that tried to act "perfect." All the others seem to protray us in that series as well.
So I don't agree with you there