There were many similarities to TOS that were very endearing but IMO these movies are not as good as the best of TOS.
I tend to agree with that sentiment.
Abrams' Trek is obviously a reboot of TOS. After watching that video, it is clear that JJ did his homework, with regard to incorporating many details into his movies that originated in TOS. In a way, that is merely superficial though.
JJ gets the sum of the parts right. But the sum of the parts does not equal the whole, in this instance imo. Granted we all have our own biases about Trek when watching these nuTrek movies.
When I first heard that Abrams was going to make his version of Trek back whenever, my first thought was why couldn't he just leave TOS alone, leave well enough alone. But I also agree with what Kirk said in ST3: "young minds. Fresh ideas. Be tolerant."
The nuTrek movies are very entertaining in their own merits. But JJ's movies are TOS on steroids. The action is on overdrive. And his Trek characters do not exude the charm that the original TOS characters had. That is where JJ falls short imo. NuTrek Kirk, McCoy and Scotty come across almost too much like caricatures.
I don't know, but maybe a little less action and more scenes of character camaraderie might work. or maybe not.