An excellent example was her crying on the bridge. Picard consoled her and it was very, very sweet moment.Yar did seem very qualified and capable as security, but I think that she was a little over-sexualized. What I might really mean is that she was very, very likeable. But she was a little too soft spoken for me. It was still the 80s when she was on the show, so perhaps there was an older fashioned "emotionally weaker woman" thing?