About A Girl...

[Jetfire]

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True and it has passed for the time being...if I can ever get myself together and then talk to her I might feel better about the whole thing.

[edit] I didn't have real closure about the relationship then and our friendship kinda ended in a strange place so that really has me unsettled when ever I think about her.

 

[Australis]

Been there, done that. I try to live in the present. Too much time spent dwelling on the past, the might-have-beens and all that.

Don't look back. All you'll see is regret.

 

[Kestra]

Don't fixate that much on a memory. It's unhealthy. Focus on the people in your life now, meeting new people, and improving yourself.

 

[Jono]

Did something happen recently that got you all worked up about her? A friend's engagement/wedding? A break-up? In times when your relationships might not be great or great in comparison to someone else it can be all too easy for you to get caught in "what ifs".

 

[Professor Zoom]

More of a general thing: why do we always need closure?

Sometimes we will never know why things ended the way they do, they just did.

Time to move on.