All of his advice was spot-on. Your priorities are way off. There's nothing mean about paying attention to your numerous threads in the past complaining about the conditions of your house and then saying it's a little irrational to be pondering spending the money on frivolous items instead of applying it towards that, or something meaningful for your daughter (a college fund was suggested), or your car... You know, actual needs versus cool stuff I didn't even want all that much or else I would have already known what to get instead of asking for advice on the internet.
Now you're going to dismiss his comments outright because you consider it "aggressive" instead of actually considering what he said without having a knee-jerk reaction to it. It was good advice, you should listen. Or you can go down the Good Will Riker path of starting numerous advice threads where you have no actual intent to listen to what anyone will say if it doesn't conform to your own ideas.
