We've had this conversation before, I say you just need to try some other shows, you say none of them grab you.
They don't and I have tried. House is occasionally interesting but it still feels episodic and the characters other than House himself seem bland and interchangeable.
Personally I don't see this "Everything is aimed at women" thing you talk about. I know there are a lot of shows aimed at women nowadays, but I don't think that stops me watching if I like the premise or the characters. I watch Grey's and sure some of the relationship stuff is annoying or childish, but that doesn't mean I can't enjoy the show on the whole.
What else is there ? Isn't it just the same old Hospital drama US television has been churning out for 50 years ?
All television, especially American television, is aimed at some specific group. It is very hard to make a show everyone will watch. Television networks are businesses, they'll go for the demographics that make the most money and right now that's young women. Young men are off playing video games, browsing the Internet and DVR'ing everything. They get their dose of advertising from Google, not NBC.
If you make a show aimed at one group, you're going to put another off. If you aim it at teenagers it'll put off the over 60's, for instance. There's often very little overlap.
Women might have suddenly joined in the gaming fun but they've all bought Wii's which end up in the attic after a few weeks. The Wii's attach rate is shocking, one of the lowest ever for a games console, especially one that has sold as well as it has. People just aren't buying additional games. It wasn't women queueing up outside Game at midnight the night Grand Theft Auto IV came out. And so, the main output of the games industry remains aimed at men.
We've dodged a bullet with the movie industry, we nearly ended up with Sex and the City being the summer's most profitable film. If it wasn't for The Dark Knight the studios would be rushing high budget rom-coms in to production left, right and centre.
The music industry is a lost cause. The mainstream music business has been aimed at teenage girls since Elvis turned up.
That leaves us guys with video games and comic books and even those get picked on. That female character's breasts are too big, it's too violent, the controls are too hard for casual players, girls don't like buttons on their controllers blah blah blah.