"That the Federation is better at it than we currently are."
ARE they?
No, seriously. Think for a moment about this.
Right now, our societies are having to deal with 1: Climate/Planet destruction issues, 2: Food production and distribution issues, 3: Overpopulation issues, all the while we don't have anything close to transporters, replicators or any of the advanced technology in the Trek Universe.
And yet in Trek we are STILL seeing genocide, starvation, mass war (just HOW many species have we gone to war with), racism/speciesm), avarice and greed on a massive scale. And I'm not just talking about the alien species here- I've got examples from multiple Federation humans in the show.
You say the Federation is better at it than us- I'm not so sure right now.