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Chick-fil-A digging themselves a hole

Could you possibly do anything more unproductive to win people to your view than screaming that they're bigots (been called that about two dozen times in this thread), homophobes (I party with gays), haters, oppressors, monsters, racists, throw backs, and medieval idiots, whose opinions are odious, hateful, primitive, ignorant, and close-minded.

You know, I don't have control over what others call you. I only have control over what I call you. Right now, I'm callng you hyperbolic, vitriolic, and probably a little bit heterosexist ("I party with gays...Really, that's right up there with "I have black friends.") On the one hand you want me to speak for "us," and "win (you) over," but then you employ Nazi imagery and call gays "drama queens." Apparently, you're incapable of recognizing a double standard. That makes you ignorant, and I could care less if that "wins you over" or not, because my goal here is not to win your over; it is to address you on your own level.

When I call people "bigots" I have a target in mind - and, yes, do you know what I saw in my town - I saw bigots. Do you know why I saw that? I saw it because I was there, and I heard the words. I saw fat, overweight Christians in church vans drive up and chow down in the parking lot for Jesus - literally. And my standard, gturner, when addressing these people is their standard, not yours. My standard is Scripture. Invective is context-dependent. The Bible employs harsh, judgmental language for apostates, false teachers, and other enemies of the faith. The Bible is full of taunt-songs and dialogues full of harsh words exchanged even between believers.

Remember that, in Scripture, most false teachers are professing believers and believers correct believers. Language is often harsh. So, as in the cases of my local interlocutors, merely calling yourself a Christian doesn’t immunize you from judgmental or generally harsh language where appropriate, and the Bible doesn't recognize "being nice" to win over an opponent as a universal standard for discourse whether it be where I live or on this board. It is our Christian duty to analogize from Biblical cases to contemporary cases.

You're targeting a restaurant chain whose CEO gave a couple million to a couple organizations that support lots of causes, the most expensive of which, by far, is providing ultrasound machines for women's clinics. If you could've won this battle, you might've cut his funding in half, diverting perhaps $100,000 in ad support against gay marriage. 100 gays could each pitch in a grand and outspend Chick-Fil-A on the issue, but no, they've instead filled Chick-Fil-A's coffers and produced half-mile lines to get chicken and waffle fries, and probably shifted 5% of the middle against gay marriage. You've only stiffened his spine and made all the other chain owners sympathize with him (I'd estimate only 15% of such owners support gay marriage, just based on their age and sex).

Guess what?! I addressed this earlier in the thread. You had ample opportunity to reply then, and yet here you are pages later twittering on. Good job.
 
This thread contains some extreme examples of how people can selectively take quotes or facts out of context, purely for the purpose of bolstering a POV or agenda. Does this really start to come down to the "I want to be right at all costs" agenda? To start calling upon aspects of fundamentalist religion and the writings of an ancient Chinese general to support a position? I mean, c'mon... this is a fast food restaurant franchise that will weather this "eye sore" in stride. This issue is not going to last. Within a month or two, most people will have moved on and Chick-fil-A will be back to business as usual. The folks who won't forget are those who still want to win their argument and may bump this thread from time to time in challenge. I vote it be closed and be done with it.
 
This thread contains some extreme examples of how people can selectively take quotes or facts out of context, purely for the purpose of bolstering a POV or agenda. Does this really start to come down to the "I want to be right at all costs" agenda? To start calling upon aspects of fundamentalist religion and the writings of an ancient Chinese general to support a position? I mean, c'mon... this is a fast food restaurant franchise that will weather this "eye sore" in stride. This issue is not going to last. Within a month or two, most people will have moved on and Chick-fil-A will be back to business as usual. The folks who won't forget are those who still want to win their argument and may bump this thread from time to time in challenge. I vote it be closed and be done with it.

I think what the end result of this could be some companies and people becoming bold in their rejection of gay people and gay marriage.

This is a country headed in the wrong direction in many ways. :(
 
Could you possibly do anything more unproductive to win people to your view than screaming that they're bigots (been called that about two dozen times in this thread), homophobes (I party with gays), haters, oppressors, monsters, racists, throw backs, and medieval idiots, whose opinions are odious, hateful, primitive, ignorant, and close-minded.

You know, I don't have control over what others call you. I only have control over what I call you. Right now, I'm callng you hyperbolic, vitriolic, and probably a little bit heterosexist ("I party with gays...Really, that's right up there with "I have black friends.") On the one hand you want me to speak for "us," and "win (you) over," but then you employ Nazi imagery and call gays "drama queens." Apparently, you're incapable of recognizing a double standard. That makes you ignorant, and I could care less if that "wins you over" or not, because my goal here is not to win your over; it is to address you on your own level.

But I'm not lined up at Chick-Fil-A to protest against gay marriage, I'm expressing frustration at the gay-marriage proponents who picked an irrelevant target and then botched the attack on it. The two who did most to bungle it were Rahm Emmanuel and Thomas Menino, who threatened to use the power of the state to essentially outlaw a business franchise because the owner's religious beliefs didn't agree with theirs. That generated headlines and laid the foundation for the appropriate fascist imagery, talk radio discussions of political correctness run amok, and rock DJ's making jokes in support of Chick-Fil-A in between songs.

Instead of rapidly distancing themselves from the two mayors who had issued the most politically heinous, frightening, and unamerican statements from a big city mayor in years, opponents of Chick-Fil-A praised them. The mayors' statements should be frightening to all Americans, because if mayors and city councils assert the power to close businesses because the owner holds a minority political opinion, they will use it.

Does anyone want a city council, often made up of the same power-mad, ambitious busy-bodies who torment people at PTA meetings, given free rein to do things like prohibiting gay people from running daycare centers? Does anyone want business owners hiring private eyes to dig through the trash of competitors to find evidence that they donated to an organization the mayor doesn't like? That would make for a paranoid society where everyone lives in fear of their neighbors or digs up dirt on competitors to get them in trouble with the state.

The mayors' statements thus changed the narrative on the Chick-Fil-A story, turning the franchise from a corporate Goliath that plots against the rights of a helpless, innocent minority, into a family-owned David standing bravely against the awesome, overwhelming power of government and its legion of intollerant, like-minded minions.

For a vast swath of Americans, once that narrative was created, further attacks on Chick-Fil-A will just confirm it. It allows the supporters of Chick-Fil-A to feel wrongly targeted, unfairly victimized, and patriotic and proud, all at the same time, guaranteeing that further attacks on them will backfire.

Given that Cathy isn't going to change his position, is probably getting buried under mail from churck-goers that support him and praise his courage, and that his franchise is more popular than ever, there's nothing further that can be won by continuing the fight. At this point, you're taking casualties on the wrong hill, one that wasn't worth taking in the first place, and there's no way to back off of it without it looking like a defeat.

When I call people "bigots" I have a target in mind - and, yes, do you know what I saw in my town - I saw bigots. Do you know why I saw that? I saw it because I was there, and I heard the words. I saw fat, overweight Christians in church vans drive up and chow down in the parking lot for Jesus - literally. And my standard, gturner, when addressing these people is their standard, not yours. My standard is Scripture. Invective is context-dependent. The Bible employs harsh, judgmental language for apostates, false teachers, and other enemies of the faith. The Bible is full of taunt-songs and dialogues full of harsh words exchanged even between believers.

Remember that, in Scripture, most false teachers are professing believers and believers correct believers. Language is often harsh. So, as in the cases of my local interlocutors, merely calling yourself a Christian doesn’t immunize you from judgmental or generally harsh language where appropriate, and the Bible doesn't recognize "being nice" to win over an opponent as a universal standard for discourse whether it be where I live or on this board. It is our Christian duty to analogize from Biblical cases to contemporary cases.

If angrily attacking Christians for their incorrect interpretations of the Bible actually worked, we wouldn't have five hundred denominations, each of which thinks their interpretations are correct and everyone else is wrong. Someone would've herded them all back into a reformed Mother Church. Lots of Christian beliefs aren't in the Bible, even absolutely fundamental things like the idea that Christ died for our sins, which wasn't thought of until around 1400 AD. What Europeans did with Christianity is beat the meaning of the text into something that made sense to their existing values, or the values they wish they had. As their values change, they change their interpretations of the Bible's meaning, or shift their sermons to put emphasis on one passage instead of another.

You disagree with the opinions and Biblical interpretations of Chick-Fil-A supporters, so you denounce the error of their ways and call them bigots, citing scripture. I'm sure that's only the 10 millionth time that's happened down South. The crowd you're addressing doesn't even stay awake for their own minister's sermons, much less someone else's, because church is just the rambling lecture that precedes Sunday fried chicken.

ETA: From today's Drudge headlines.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/chicken_lips_are_scarce_YjYD7gxNbcBd4WhzBWcJgN

This was billed as the greatest protest since Occupy Wall Street. Thousands of scantily clad gay men and lesbians said they’d lock lips in a coast-to-coast red-hot make-out session.

They were to blast anti-gay-marriage comments made by Chick-fil-A CEO Dan Cathy. But gays preferred staying home to watch “The Real Housewives of New Jersey.”

Tumbleweeds could have rolled through the Paramus Park Mall in New Jersey yesterday as a symbol for the lack of stamina in the national kissing campaign.

...

But there wasn’t enough gay outrage to draw more than one person who was actually gay.

She was Laura Fram, 34, a gay Republican vegetarian, who said Chick-fil-A was “hateful and hurtful.”

But her main problem was that she had no one to kiss.

...

One disappointed by the smooch fiasco was Curtis Sliwa. The radio talker and Guardian Angel has been urging people to come out and eat.

“I was here to realize every male fantasy — watching lesbians kiss,” he said. “Now I get to buy a spicy chicken sandwich and waffle fries.

“I’m disappointed.”

It dies not with a bang, but with a whimper.
 
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One thing makes me wonder. So, certain people at the head of the corporation hate gays, and even went to the length of donated money to hateful groups. Now their actions triggered people doing this in front of Chick-fil-A and documenting it in photographs. Wouldn't that make their hateful souls feel worse than they would be feeling if they left people to marry happily without disturbing anyone's souls?

The truth is that if they never donated those money, they'd never have to see this happen in front of Chick-fil-A with such intensity and publicity. Not being so hateful towards the people you hate helps even a bigot sleep well...
 
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One thing makes me wonder. So, certain people at the head of the corporation hate gays, and even went to the length of donated money to hateful groups. Now their actions triggered people doing this in front of Chick-fil-A and documenting it in photographs. Wouldn't that make their hateful souls feel worse than they would be feeling if they left people to marry happily without disturbing anyone's souls?

The truth is that if they never donated those money, they'd never have to see this happen in front of Chick-fil-A with such intensity and publicity. Not being so hateful towards the people you hate helps even a bigot sleep well...

Well, the problem with your UK Telegraph picture and the New York Times picture is that the restaurants were packed but the photographers couldn't find two gay couples to put in the same frame. That reinforces the jokes the New York Post was making about the fizzle of the kiss-in, and how Sliwa was diappointed in the utter lack of hot lesbian action down at the Chick-Fil-A.

In other action today, a bunch of House Republicans signed a letter by Representative Alan Nunnelee to Dan Cathy.

"We write today to show support for the manner in which you have defended your values and reputation in the face of unfair and malicious criticism," the letter to Cathy begins.

The letter from Nunnelee and fellow Republicans states that they are "bewildered" that local politicians in Boston, Chicago, New York and San Francisco have said the company was unwelcome in their communities because of Cathy's stance.

"We are bewildered by those who would take offense at your values and would block the expansion of your business into their communities," it states. "We welcome Chick-fil-A's investment in our districts."

Nunnelee said he was moved to pen the letter after what he called a "vicious smear campaign" against the restaurant.

“The criticism they have received has been appalling," Nunnelee said. "Elected officials that are now threatening to block new Chick-fil-A restaurants in their cities are acting in a manner that is un-American. Demanding ideological conformity in order to be allowed to run your business is a dangerous precedent. It is like something that would happen in Soviet Russia."

As I've been saying, the mayors going overboard in their attacks completely screwed up the narrative and made Chick-Fil-A the victim, causing Republican politicians to gasp in horror and compare what's supposed to be a gay-rights campaign to "something that would happen in Soviet Russia."

Better planning and tactical coordination could've prevented this entirely unnecessary and unfortunate outcome. For a successful rights campaign against unfairness and oppression, you can't throw away the appearance of being a victim by looking like the aggressor. You need to make the other side look like thugs and sound like thugs, while you act all innocent, hurt, and bewildered. The path to victory is through winning sympathy from and instilling some guilt in the people who were either unconcerned or actively supporting the status quo.

You can't let outrage at unfair treatment be perceived as an angry, hateful attack on somebody who isn't really doing much of anything to deserve it, and you've lost image control when politicians in Washington are calling the protest a "vicious smear campaign" "appalling" and comapring it to something in Soviet Russia.

Chick-Fil-A is not going to run gay kissers off with police dogs and water canons, shown endlessly on CBS News, which is about the only way to turn this around.
 
I'd never heard chick-fil-a before a short while ago, we don't have them in Seattle (I checked and the closest is at Boise State University), but I and numerous others have heard of them now. What's the best kind of advertising?

Free advertising.

:)
 
It was only random luck that the Torrance vandals didn't use the German symbol to denounce Chick-Fil-A as "Nazis", and if this keeps up, within a week on of them will use it, and when they do the headline writers will be free to write their own captions.

The problem with getting people so fired up over so little is that it attracts a lot of hate-filled idiots who go overboard. This has already been happening. People with no sense and no idea how their antics will be perceived have posted Youtube videos of their actions, and this is only feeding public support for Chick-Fil-A, giving the chain victim status and causing a massive outpouring of sympathetic support.

Yes, some people going too far is a problem with any organized or disorganized protest. You can't possibly control the actions of every individual who shows up to a nationwide protest and often there are agent provocateurs working for the opposition who seek to discredit a movement or provoke violence from the inside (not saying that happened here, just saying it happens). But that doesn't mean you just throw in the towel on the whole idea of protesting and boycotts; you condemn the individuals who crossed the line and say that they don't represent your views.

But in this case both the vandalism and the douche berating the Chick-fil-A employee happened AFTER the mass outpouring of support promoted by Huckabee, Santorum, and Palin for Chick-fil-A's anti-gay line in the sand, so trying to take two isolated incidents, portray them as typical of the movement, and blame them for provoking the overwhelming support for Chick-fil-A is nonsense. People are supporting the company because they were fed a load of BS in right wing news and blogs that this is a First Amendment fight in defense of one man's beliefs and/or because they support the anti-gay rhetoric, policies, and donations of Chick-fil-A.

For a hypothetical example, if you support gay rights, you opposed the views of Anita Bryant, who famously denounced gays while she was the spokesman for the Florida Orange Juice council.
Let me stop you right there. It's not Florida in the late-70s, it's not the black civil rights movement in the South in the 50s and 60s, it's not WWII and the Holocaust, and it's not relevant to the military strategies of von Clausewitz or Sun Tzu or Jomini. It's a peaceful boycott and protest relating to LGBT civil rights in the here and now, and your constant non sequiturs linked to this issue in the most tenuous and ridiculous ways serve no purpose but to derail the discussion (as unfortunately I now have to correct numerous inaccuracies about Dr. King below).

As I've said, I'm frustrated watching people who intend well, but whose actions are entirely self-defeating. If gays are so upset with Chick-Fil-A, why did they go out and double or triple Chick-Fil-A's revenue? Why did they do so much to convince other franchises to adopt whatever political stand Chick-Fil-A had that made Chick-Fil-A so suddenly popular? Why did they make eating at Chick-Fil-A seem like an act of rebellion, hip, cool, patriotic, and American, all at the same time? Chick-Fil-A could've bought this kind of PR if they'd spent a billion dollars. The drama queens are too self-absorbed to see how the controversy is unfolding in everyone else's eyes.
Yes, we can tell that you've been deeply concerned for LGBT rights and that you're only calling them "drama queens" because you care so very much. That's why you've been fighting this so hard every step of the way. Spare me the bs.

You ask all these "why...?" questions as if the intentions of the boycotters and protestors were to deliberately cause a groundswell of support for bigoted and misplaced counter-protesting. They aren't psychic. They probably expected some counter-protests and corporate support but not the huge response that's happened so far. I'm sure it's quite demoralizing to see so much vitriol being directed toward them when all they want is to be given the same rights and respect as everyone else.

And it is mass amounts of vitriol couched in the usual pseudo-civility and misplaced FREEDOM!!! bullshit (while being uncivil and denying actual freedoms at the same time), as opposed to a couple of isolated incidents of people being dicks. The restaurant got the graffiti painted over the next day. The guy who was a dick to the girl at the drive-through window got fired. Both situations were redressed immediately. Has Chick-fil-A reconsidered their policies and donations at all? Why don't you redirect your complaints there since you care so very much, instead of bringing up issues that have been dropped (the mayors denying permits) or resolved (the vandalism and drive-thru incident)?

And that is part of my point. Could you possibly do anything more unproductive to win people to your view than screaming that they're bigots (been called that about two dozen times in this thread), homophobes (I party with gays), haters, oppressors, monsters, racists, throw backs, and medieval idiots, whose opinions are odious, hateful, primitive, ignorant, and close-minded.
Boo fucking hoo. If you actively support a group who is trying to suppress people's civil rights don't expect to get treated with kid gloves. If the shoe fits... as they say. And I don't care if you party with gays or have black friends or whatever other clichés bigots like to throw out when they're in denial of what they're supporting, the fact is, you're supporting homophobia. You're participating in or supporting denying people's civil rights. It's not all puppies and unicorns when you try and suppress people who are just trying to live their lives. Deal with it and quit whining and calling for civility while you're being uncivil.

You're targeting a restaurant chain whose CEO gave a couple million to a couple organizations that support lots of causes, the most expensive of which, by far, is providing ultrasound machines for women's clinics.
Oh, right, so if the company donates to one good thing, that means we should ignore all the bad things it does. Flawless logic right there.

Now onto all the bullshit you were spewing about Dr. King...

Martin Luther King, who didn't support gay marriage and donated to Christian charities that supported families, is going to be rewritten as an evil "hater" who worked to suppress civil rights. He was probably worse than Cathy, and all the black civil rights leaders know it, and many agree with him, publically.
Dr. King didn't support or oppose gay marriage because it was quite simply not part of the national consciousness at that time. You're trying to project modern issues on the past.

If Dr. King was as bitterly opposed to gays and gay marriage as Cathy is, where are all the sermons, articles, and speeches on it? The one time he addressed homosexuality directly in public was in an advice column in Ebony in 1958 where he referred to it as a culturally influenced choice and gave a young boy advice on dealing with his feelings in a polite and non-condemning way. That simply reflected public understanding of homosexuality at the time, and was not an indictment against it.

Why was his special assistant Bayard Rustin not only an openly gay man, but also a outspoken one in the 60s which was virtually unheard of? There was enormous pressure on King to remove him as a distraction, but King refused.

None of these things point to a man who was bitterly opposed to gays. They don't point to much of anything, which is why it's ridiculous to try and speak as if you have some insider knowledge of Dr. King's thoughts.

Some members of the King family would feel right at home in the Westboro Baptist Church, but probably don't think it's doing enough for the anti-gay struggle.

You're so full of shit. Dr. King's daughter Bernice opposes gay marriage on religious grounds, but has never engaged in the kind of hateful rhetoric and funeral protests the WBC has, and has in fact called on LGBT people to join her in fulfilling Dr. King's legacy. And Dr. King's widow Coretta Scott King strongly supported gay marriage and LGBT rights (as does her other daughter Yolanda) and took a lot of heat for it from black pastors. She said supporting gay rights is perfectly in line with her husband's ideals. So, the wife and the older daughter who actually had more exposure to MLK both said he would support LGBT rights in a modern context. Speculation to be sure, but a hell of a lot better than your baseless anachronistic speculation.

Martin Luther King didn't win his struggle by screaming at whites to see how much he could piss them off, or threaten them, or insult them, or threaten their businesses, because he knew that to succeed he had to win them to his side. He also didn't spend all his political capital to target a restaurant that employed and served blacks exactly the same as the white customers, because he wasn't stupid.
Oh my God, shut up about things you clearly don't know.

Dr. King and the SCLC organized boycotts and lunch counter sit-ins at restaurants in Greensboro, North Carolina, Birmingham, Alabama, and Atlanta, Georgia amongst others, and in the latter he was arrested and sentenced to four months in jail before JFK and RFK intervened on his behalf. So he directly boycotted restaurants that supported intolerance, just like what's happening here, because food is often on the frontlines of these issues.

During the Birmingham campaign the SCLC specifically targeted white-owned businesses that supported segregation by boycotting them, and their followers would shame any black customers who would patronize downtown businesses. The protests were not all calm and quiet. Passive resistance doesn't mean you have to stay silent, and it doesn't mean --just like the situation today-- that the occasional person can't be provoked into doing something beyond the parameters of what is best for the movement, like responding to hate with hate or violence with violence. That happens occasionally, but it doesn't discredit the whole movement as a result.

And for the eleventh time, Chick-fil-A may be willing to take gay customer's money the same as everyone else's (I guess greed trumps their high and mighty morals), and they may hire gay employees for lowly positions, but their retreats for people wishing to move up in management or to have franchise ownership ban gays. Their preferences for management-level employees and franchise owners are that they be married, which is something gays can't do, and something the company has actively supported legislation to prevent. So gays don't get treated "exactly the same" as everyone else, hence the boycotts and protests.

Now that we've gotten all of that out of the way, can we stick to discussing the actual issue at hand instead of namedropping civil rights leaders of the past, historical bigots, and war strategists and philosophers?
 
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This thread contains some extreme examples of how people can selectively take quotes or facts out of context, purely for the purpose of bolstering a POV or agenda. Does this really start to come down to the "I want to be right at all costs" agenda? To start calling upon aspects of fundamentalist religion and the writings of an ancient Chinese general to support a position? I mean, c'mon... this is a fast food restaurant franchise that will weather this "eye sore" in stride. This issue is not going to last. Within a month or two, most people will have moved on and Chick-fil-A will be back to business as usual. The folks who won't forget are those who still want to win their argument and may bump this thread from time to time in challenge. I vote it be closed and be done with it.

Seconded.
 
This thread contains some extreme examples of how people can selectively take quotes or facts out of context, purely for the purpose of bolstering a POV or agenda. Does this really start to come down to the "I want to be right at all costs" agenda? To start calling upon aspects of fundamentalist religion and the writings of an ancient Chinese general to support a position? I mean, c'mon... this is a fast food restaurant franchise that will weather this "eye sore" in stride. This issue is not going to last. Within a month or two, most people will have moved on and Chick-fil-A will be back to business as usual. The folks who won't forget are those who still want to win their argument and may bump this thread from time to time in challenge. I vote it be closed and be done with it.

Seconded.

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And it is mass amounts of vitriol couched in the usual pseudo-civility and misplaced FREEDOM!!! bullshit (while being uncivil and denying actual freedoms at the same time), as opposed to a couple of isolated incidents of people being dicks.

How are people standing in line for a freakin' chicken sandwich oppressing someone? Is it because they like chicken? Somebody over at Hardees or Burger King might be donating millions directly to campaigns to ban gay marriage, but they must get a pass because they eat beef.

Let's take California's proposition 8, for example, and the money coming in from out of state, detailed by the LA Times here: http://projects.latimes.com/prop8/

$27,702,491 came from California. Cathy isn't in California.

Cathy is located in Georgia, as is the National Christian Foundation which receives some of his money. The entire state of Georgia only contributed $15,685 and none of it came from Cathy. Delta Airlines, Google, Red Hat, Cox Communications, Turner Broadcasting, and Coca-Cola show up in the list, but nobody from Chick-Fil-A. Not a single person.

The Family Research Council, headquartered in Washington DC (you can click the links above to bring up detailed data by state), which receives money from Cathy's Winshape foundation, donated only $1,000. Concerned Women for America, which is very unlikely to receive money from Cathy, donated $409,000, and the Conference of Catholic Bishops, which almost certainly didn't get any money from Cathy, donated $200,000.

Cathy also gives to Focus on the Family, located in Colorado. Six people from Focus on the Family (out of 1,300 employees in that state) gave a combined total of $1,142, less than some guy from the Dish Network.

Focus on the Family itself gave $641,953.17, out of yearly expenses of about $102 million dollars (expense report is here: http://media.focusonthefamily.com/fotf/pdf/about-us/financial-reports/2011-annual-report.pdf other reports here: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/about_us/financial_reports.aspx )

According to Snopes ( http://www.snopes.com/politics/sexuality/chickfila.asp ), the Cathys gave $1,714,199 to all such charities, and since only FOTF made any significant contribution to prop 8, let's assume that all his donations went that route. That would mean 1.68% of FOTF's money came from Cathy, so about $10,788, at most, of Chick-Fil-A money went toward proposition 8, assuming all of Chick-Fil-A's donations happened in just the one year that prop 8 was going on, which is almost certainly false (so my estimate is high).

So there's your approximate number, $10,788, which is how much Chick-Fil-A has possibly spent opposing proposition 8. The total they spent opposing gay marriage elsewhere can't be very much larger, because Prop 8 was the issue's spending palooza.

Looking elsewhere, John and Josephine Templeton from Pennsylvania gave $1.2 million on proposition 8, and I haven't heard their names mentioned once. Some dude at Dell in Austin gave $25,000. Some random Dallas housewife gave $50,000. In fact, Cathy and Chick-Fil-A would be a couple hundred down on the list, down in the insignificant pile, and that's among out of state funders. The real money came from within California.

So why would I complain about Chick-Fil-A instead of all the other companies we do business with (like Dell), whose employees are 5 or 10 times worse than Chick-Fil-A in opposing gay marriage?

Now onto all the bullshit you were spewing about Dr. King...

Pssstt... Check his neice. Zowie.

Dr. King and the SCLC organized boycotts and lunch counter sit-ins at restaurants in Greensboro, North Carolina, Birmingham, Alabama, and Atlanta, Georgia amongst others, and in the latter he was arrested and sentenced to four months in jail before JFK and RFK intervened on his behalf. So he directly boycotted restaurants that supported intolerance, just like what's happening here, because food is often on the frontlines of these issues.

Um, no. He boycotted restaurants that refused to serve blacks. Chick-Fil-A doesn't refuse to serve gays. They even hire gays as managers. If Martin Luther King boycotted restaurants that served blacks as long as their CEOs were uncomfortable with integration, the boycotts would've gone on through the 1980's, assuming they weren't still going on.

During the Birmingham campaign the SCLC specifically targeted white-owned businesses that supported segregation by boycotting them, and their followers would shame any black customers who would patronize downtown businesses.

I didn't realize businesses were still making gays sit in the back of the bus and drink from seperate water fountains. Even Chick-Fil-A doesn't do that. In fact, I was quite unaware that a marriage required permission from corporate headquarters. Maybe I slept through that employee orientation lecture.

And for the eleventh time, Chick-fil-A may be willing to take gay customer's money the same as everyone else's (I guess greed trumps their high and mighty morals), and they may hire gay employees for lowly positions, but their retreats for people wishing to move up in management or to have franchise ownership ban gays.

Only one third of their operators have even been to a retreat. Those are the people who own the franchises. (ETA: He prefers married people as operators, due to the stress and hours, but do you see single people boycotting Chick-Fil-A?)

As I said, you picked an insignificant target on shaky, nebulous grounds and chose that hill to make a stand on. At most, if you'd won, you could've reduce funding for anti-gay marriage issues by $10,788, a fifth of what some random Dallas housewife gave. Maybe you should go find her and toilet paper her house. It would be more effective.
 
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How are people standing in line for a freakin' chicken sandwich oppressing someone? Is it because they like chicken?
:wtf:

Should I link to the message boards for my local newspaper and tv stations and discussions at Huffington Post, Facebook and other places to show that to you, or can you honestly not figure that out for yourself?

Sure some went in the name of "Free Speech" (of course, "Free Speech" was not attacked here by gays at all. The gay lobby has been happy to let Cathy's words ring far and wide. "Free Speech" doesn't immunize a person from expressions of disapproval, boycotts, or anything else.

I've seen quite a bit of homophobia from supporters of Amendment One here in NC. These same people came out to support CFA. In fact, here's a nice little ditty from the folks at Fox Nation. That's not at all homophobic or insulting to gays is it? Really ---Do-the-math.

I pointed this out before, speaking for myself, I don't measure the success or failure of what gays have done by dollars - I measure it on intangibles. So, all the math, frankly doesn't matter. I guess I'm an idealist in that respect. It sure has brought out the truth in a lot of people - for example, people who say they party with gays while standing up for homophobia; people who go to buy chicken sandwiches for Jesus while ignoring the 9th Commandment; people who pat themselves on the back for the Lord while quoting Leviticus 16 and ignoring Proverbs 12; people who witter on about the gays boycotting CFA and how intolerable that is, while ignoring NOM's boycott of Starbucks and General Mills, and all sorts of other nonsense that has gone on recently.

Pssstt... Check his neice. Zowie.
Your original statement was that some members of his family would be at home with Phelps and crew. Where's the supporting argument that Alveda's remarks rise to that level?

Um, no. He boycotted restaurants that refused to serve blacks
Um, no. You see, I have the advantage of living where some of these sit-ins took place: Greensboro. The issue was the lunch counter, sitting at the front, not denying blacks service universally.

Chick-Fil-A doesn't refuse to serve gays.

No, they just take gay dollars and then funnel it to places that disempower them. I'll add that Cathy is Southern Baptist. I'm quite sure that he gives a good portion to the Cooperative Program through his church. Now, he's free to do that, it's a family business. Why is that germaine? Hmmm, well that would include the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission. Does the name Richard Land ring a bell?
They even hire gays as managers.
Well, then, that's settles it. Guess what: the Greensboro Woolworth's employed some blacks - just like you party with gay people and CFA hires gays as hourlies and managers. This doesn't help your case study.

For someone who calls us gays "drama queens," you surely do a remarkable impersonation of one yourself. Is that something you've worked at over time or does it just come to you spontaneously?
 
A majority of U.S. women support homosexual marriage.

A majority of U.S. men support traditional marriage. This is the gender divide which underlies this whole debate.

As it is, whatever side you come down on, there should be a respect and tolerance for the other side. As the Chick-fil-A imbroglio demonstrates, this basic civility does not exist.
 
A majority of U.S. women support homosexual marriage.

A majority of U.S. men support traditional marriage. This is the gender divide which underlies this whole debate.

As it is, whatever side you come down on, there should be a respect and tolerance for the other side. As the Chick-fil-A imbroglio demonstrates, this basic civility does not exist.

So the fuck what? In what twisted, stupid logic world should there be any kind of civility towards people who would actively and willingly work to limit the rights of other people?

Religion and the Bible be damned! Nobody - not you, not me, not anyone on this goddamn rock has the right to do that.
 
A majority of U.S. women support homosexual marriage.

A majority of U.S. men support traditional marriage. This is the gender divide which underlies this whole debate

Somehow I doubt it is anywhere near that simple, or even that true.

Well, what he says above is true, but you're right that it's not quite that simple. There are a lot more factors behind whether or not you support gay marriage:

According to new numbers released Monday morning from Gallup, 50% of Americans say same-sex marriages should be legal. But break it down by gender, and 56% of women say same-sex couples should be legally allowed to marry, but only 42% of men feel the same way.

The survey also points to a geographic divide, with a majority in the East, Midwest and West in support of legal same-sex marriages, but only four-in-ten in the South feeling the same way.

The poll also indicates the predictable generational gap, with younger voters more supportive of same-sex marriage and older voters opposed, and partisan divide, with nearly two-thirds of Democrats and a majority of independent voters, but only one-in-five Republicans, in support of such marriages.


http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.co...men-dont-see-eye-to-eye-on-same-sex-marriage/
However, this part of his post:

As it is, whatever side you come down on, there should be a respect and tolerance for the other side. As the Chick-fil-A imbroglio demonstrates, this basic civility does not exist.

People don't have to respect and tolerate disrespect and intolerance toward a group of people just because of the way they were born.

"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." I think there's a rule about that somewhere (and not just Christianity, it's a pretty universal rule amongst almost all religions and cultures).
 
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