We don't know how life started yet, but we have figured out there are potential mechanisms, and we've figured out there are things called evolutionary processes that make it easier than we've ever imagined. We aren't certain that it is not excruciatingly difficult, but even if it is it very very unlikely it still leaves a very big possibility for at least one other instance of life in the universe, because the number of planets would be insanely huge too.
And just to point out: The statement that “no life at all” and “life in almost every reasonable place” are equally likely implies that almost certainly the universe is quite abundant in life (equally likely would imply a probability smaller than one over a billion). If I was to make an argument against life in the universe, I'd point out that life on no other planets at all is much more likely than life on just a few planets, because there are lower rates even after you reach zero planets. You can have life in one out of a sextillion universes.
And just to point out: The statement that “no life at all” and “life in almost every reasonable place” are equally likely implies that almost certainly the universe is quite abundant in life (equally likely would imply a probability smaller than one over a billion). If I was to make an argument against life in the universe, I'd point out that life on no other planets at all is much more likely than life on just a few planets, because there are lower rates even after you reach zero planets. You can have life in one out of a sextillion universes.
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