This is why I don't even bother asking women out anymore!
- Thread starter Aldo
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thanks.
Given the dugout is where you are before (and after your ABs) isnt it more likely the dugout is the pub, and the on deck circle being as you appoarch her (or him)
At least its pretty clear what "batting for the other team" means, however maybe using baseball refrences isnt always the best way to go.
Absolutely. She said no to your offer of lunch, Aldo. That's all.
Besides that, a girl saying "no" isn't really a sign of anything. Maybe she's just not interested in you, maybe she isn't interested in anyone, maybe she's already in a relationship, maybe she's not into men, etc. etc. You don't know why she turned you down. It doesn't matter. Just move on to the next one.
What, do you expect every woman you ask to say "yes"?
What, do you expect every woman you ask to say "yes"?
What is wrong with you folks! 
What is this BS about- well at least she didn't slap him, scream at him or pull out a gun and shoot him type of comments. So she didn't completely blow up in drama queen mode and humiliate you in public for asking a simple question--so things went pretty well for you. 
What?? Their is nothing wrong with him, the blame needs to be place on her, and the spine-less detached attitude she presented , that I have often seen represented by most American females of a certain age and maturity level. 
The Shatinator
What is this BS about- well at least she didn't slap him, scream at him or pull out a gun and shoot him type of comments. So she didn't completely blow up in drama queen mode and humiliate you in public for asking a simple question--so things went pretty well for you. What?? Their is nothing wrong with him, the blame needs to be place on her, and the spine-less detached attitude she presented , that I have often seen represented by most American females of a certain age and maturity level. The Shatinator
I don't think anyone's used the term "going steady" since the 60s, but yes, that's correct.
True, but when it's the umpteenth time in five years that I've been rejected, I start to wonder if I'll ever go on a date again.
Well, here's one tip: when you approach a woman, don't have a face that says "I haven't been on a date in 5 years."
Kind of hard to do when it's the only face one knows... heh. But yeah, I've been there. I know all about it and I know the feeling. I haven't been too lucky either.
Unfortunately, no one can be told what a Grand Slam is... you have to experience it for yourself.Anal is the Grand Slam. At least in my book.
The way I see it, if someone doesn't show any signs of interest they usually aren't interested. From my experience, if a woman is interested in you and you think you could have something, you should go for it. The worst that can happen is it doesn't work out, but at least you got together with someone that actually liked you without you "making" them like you.
Probably bad advice, but just what I've observed.
Probably bad advice, but just what I've observed.
Unfortunately, no one can be told what a Grand Slam is... you have to experience it for yourself.Anal is the Grand Slam. At least in my book.
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Yeah, well, that's basically what she said.
Unfortunately, no one can be told what a Grand Slam is... you have to experience it for yourself.Anal is the Grand Slam. At least in my book.
I thought a threesome is the Grand Slam.
Well, the obvious translation is, "I have a rule, I don't date YOU".
So you got your explanation after all.
Indeed. You've got it all topsy-turvy; I believe the point is for it to blow up in her face.
You need to work on building up your confidence. Look if the chick doesn't want to go out with you it's no big deal. Find another one! I know, you were crushing on her. Well, try asking out someone just to ask them out! Quit setting yourself up for the huge fall by waiting to "crush" on them and then you get crushed. I've had a crush on Beyonce for years but she won't give my fat white butt the time of day! Be nice to women, without making them feel like you're after something. Afterall, when you're "crushing" your goal from the outset is to hopefully end up in a long term relationship. Your goals are too high. Girls like wit too! Prepare some responses that are witty, not creepy, to anticipated answers from her! Her- "I'm sorry I don't do lunch!" You-"Whew! Me neither!! You had me worried there for a moment! I can only afford coffee anyway!" (big smile from you) - btw this actually worked for me and we had several coffees over the next few weeks and discovered that we were better off as friends. (I never set myself up for the fall!) I've been married now for 20 years and had a great single life in my 20's by going out with lots of girls! (and I ain't no Harrison Ford..more like Benjamin Harrison) Just have fun with it! Don't make the girl feel pressured and don't make yourself seem available all the time! I didn't GET asked out until after I got married. I got asked out several times! It's strange, like they just couldn't stand not knowing what my wife did know! Anywho...don't settle for one girl and then take a fall. Pick out several, just ask them out casually. (please make sure you're clean, well groomed and don't have bad breath!) Soon you'll be going out more than you could've imagined!!
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Thank you, I'm glad somebody noticed. I go through all the hard work of setting up a witty comment and it gets ignored! So it's nice to see someone appreciated it.
