Today I learned our brain's reward center goes crazy when it gets an unexpected reward.
So you're chugging along fine in your ho-hum life, content and happy, getting your steady shots of dopamine, but when something unexpectedly pleasant happens, you get this huge hit.
Suddenly so many things became clear to me. Why people with great lives and careers risk everything for that moment of euphoria. Why people get addicted to gambling. Why that sudden unexpected chocolate treat from your co-worker tastes so much better than your own snack. Why it's so fun to poke your head into the kitchen to see what's cooking and hopefully steal something.
(Yup that explains kleptomaniacs as well).
Surprises are sweet. And that the joy of living lies not in doing the same safe thing everyday but trying new things. The more you try to control, the more you crave for the euphoria of losing it.
Well this is just something I wanted to share. It really is something that I know already but it just seems so much clearer now with the science and everything.
So you're chugging along fine in your ho-hum life, content and happy, getting your steady shots of dopamine, but when something unexpectedly pleasant happens, you get this huge hit.
Suddenly so many things became clear to me. Why people with great lives and careers risk everything for that moment of euphoria. Why people get addicted to gambling. Why that sudden unexpected chocolate treat from your co-worker tastes so much better than your own snack. Why it's so fun to poke your head into the kitchen to see what's cooking and hopefully steal something.

Surprises are sweet. And that the joy of living lies not in doing the same safe thing everyday but trying new things. The more you try to control, the more you crave for the euphoria of losing it.
Well this is just something I wanted to share. It really is something that I know already but it just seems so much clearer now with the science and everything.
