Perhaps the situations seem similar to you because, in both cases, people are relentlessly disagreeing with you?
I really don't know what the answer is, but to say it's "the way of the world", and to blame the publishers for not competing effectively against piracy at this early stage, and offering dirt cheap alternatives when the pirates are offering free stuff, seems to be to be extremely shortsighted.
My point is: you don't have to like it, but economic reality is changing around us. Yelling at the damn kids to "get out of my apple tree!" isn't going to change it back.
And it probably isn't a "change it back" situation. But since the current situation is not sustainable, some new model needs to be worked out.
Therin,
I don't think anyone in this thread is saying they want free ebooks or even cheap ebooks. Parity across the board with pricing would be nice. I.e. ebooks not costing more than paper books, and not too much of a price difference between countries.
Regarding geo-restrictions your argument is certainly valid as to why you should buy a product from a supplier in your own country if it is available. But the main problem is not the difference in price between individual countries. It's the fact that you cannot actually buy the books. Due to the internet I can now see quite clearly that a book is on sale in another country and yet I cannot buy it in my country. A digital product should be on sale across the world within a reasonable time frame. Days, maybe a week or two, but not months as is often the case. I would even go as far as to suggest that they hold off selling in every country until the agreements are in place, so that the book can be put up for sale across the world at the same time. This would reduce the number of people downloading pirated copies substantially.
The argument against this would be that the digital version of the book is linked to the paper version and that they want them both to go on sale at the same time in each country. And obviously as with every other physical product release dates around the world will be staggered due to shipping, warehousing and promotional reasons.
But due to the internet they are just going to have to give up on that one. They've got to sever the link between digital and physical products. I can't think of a reason against this but I've been proven to look silly in the past so if anybody has arguments against this I would be very interested to hear them?