What bugged me was the shit-eating on the Vulcan woman's face. Nice acting there.
Sarek not defending Amanda could be seen as a nod to Vulcan logic, though: any defense would betray an emotional attachment he could not afford to reveal.
Makes sense.
i have also wondered if this was supposed to have been a final test of spock.
he may have been allowed to have even defended his heritage in a logical manner.
it might have been an outgrowth of the incident from his childhood.
were he beat the other boy to a pulp for insulting his mother.
so they science council wanted to see just how far had he come.
would he have an emotional outburst..
ignore the insult.. or as noted above give a logical defense about humanity.
sarek may have been aware of this.
evidently indeed amanda was held in high esteem by those higher up considering she was part of the effort to preserve the katra's.
maybe some vulcans like to use this as a tatic to judge..
tpau seems to do it in amok time.
at first she is very dismissive and insulting about kirk and bones.
but once they show that they will stand by spock no matter what she compliments him on his choice of companions .
Spock chose his friends well
(frankly i find the choice of "friend" interesting.
an acknowledgement of how special each is to the other)
then possibly saves kirk's career by putting out that request for enterprise.
vulcans are simply very complicated.
