Write it. And publish it under a pseudonym. You would then have to cope with having published a novel you couldn't talk to your family about, so that might not help you!
If you see a book on the shelves several years down the road and it's written by "Kestra" you might want to pick it up!
Is there anything in your story that would make your sister or family look bad? I mean, every family has its secrets. If there are certain things you just aren't comfortable telling the world, then don't. I suspect you can communicate the essence of your story without making it a tell-all tabloid.
Yeah, it wouldn't paint them all in a good light. I mean, I would never be intentionally malicious. I think even people here can tell that much about me. But I come from a family that has its share of quirks and deeper issues, and part of that is helped along by my family's complete refusal to talk about anything. There's a very strong cultural attitude about keeping things private, even seemingly minor things.
That's not to say that I would write the story from a perspective of someone who is all good and shiny and perfect in a family of crazies. It's more about how I view my family and my culture. Something that at times, is deeply flawed and harmful but in the end is also incredibly rewarding and invaluable.
Okay sorry, I'm totally turning this thread into focusing on me! I honestly didn't mean to. This is the most open I've been about my ideas before and I just got carried away.![]()
Talking about yourself is okay, you know.

If you don't want to derail this thread, why don't you start one about your eventual book? Sounds like you could use some support.