That was one of the things I liked about Kira.yep. it's the reason many fans hated Kira in DS9. she stood up for herself.
me too. but there're plenty people who don't. believe me, I've had an earful about how she's "always on the rag" etc for years...
she's one of my favorite Trek characters.
Kira was a strong character who had gone through hell early in her life. Who she was and what she stood for were entirely believable.
People can say what they want about DS9, but at least in my opinion, Kira and the major characters of that show were the best fleshed-out Trek characters of the entire franchise.