The hard evidence is right there in the songs he wrote. Ever really paid attention to the words of "Lithium"? "Rape Me"? "All Apologies"? Dude was dying.I'll believe it when hard evidence comes out.
It's an admittedly armchair-diagnosis, but based on the words to "Lithium" I think he may have had a serious mental disorder that caused him to perceive the world strangely - probably scared the hell out of him half the time. I wish I had known then what I know now about those sorts of things, and had cared more than I did at the time.
As to Courtney Love, I think she has, or at least had, talent. "Doll Parts", "Violet", "Malibu", "Celebrity Skin" - say what you want about who may have written them, she (and Hole) performed them well. And her performance in The People vs Larry Flynt was Oscar worthy, in my opinion. And I was surprised and impressed with the essay the OP refers to, as well, when it first came out.
And bear in mind that I say all of this as an overall Love detractor - because all of that doesn't make up for her white trash antics and poor mothering skills.
But she didn't kill Curt. No one had to.
More on topic: I went through a couple of years where I wouldn't pirate a single byte of anything, because I considered it wrong. Then I read this:
...and I realized something. It isn't piracy. It is privateering, with proxy letters of marque issued by a no longer extant government that would still support copyright the way Jefferson set it up in the first place. Because we are at WAR. This jerkwad at Sony declared it.Steve Heckler said:"Sony is going to take aggressive steps to stop this," Heckler told the Summer Forty-Niner. "We will develop technology that transcends the individual user. We will firewall Napster at source -- we will block it at your cable company, we will block it at your phone company, we will block it at your ISP. We will firewall it at your PC."