has any 1 ever be tie up for fun
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TITS anyone?
Yes, although the hot candlewax that was poured on my chest was a bit much.
You're doing it wrong.
My answer is no but, obviously, I'd like to be. I'd also like to do the tying.
/stares in the general direction of Brooklyn...
drychlick - I hope you had some safe, sane and consensual fun.
No. Wouldn't ever want to, I think. Just doesn't appeal to me at all.
Long time ago, when I was young. You need good ties that will hold without leaving any marks (silk scarves are great), a good 'code word' for "It's not fun any more, let me out" and a partner you trust. And maybe a willingness to reciprocate another time.
Safe words are mandatory, kids. Do it wrong and you can cut off circulation, cause joint and muscular problems and leave nasty burns on the skin.
Get yourselves a good book on the subject.
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I have never been restrained. I know I wouldn't enjoy it.
I'm probably far too straight-laced to go for that. I enjoy intimacy for it's own sake, and do not require extra "help" to achieve arousal.
I'm probably far too straight-laced to go for that. I enjoy intimacy for it's own sake, and do not require extra "help" to achieve arousal.
Oh yes, definitely a lot of trust required... Look what happened to this guy 
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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/new...e-was-obsessed-with-spanking-male-escort.html
:http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/new...e-was-obsessed-with-spanking-male-escort.html
To be fair, it's not really about how you "get started" so to speak and there's a common misconception about which person's pleasure this is actually about.
And RoJo's right, trust is extremely important, as is knowing what you're doing.
Always.
I would be afraid of being left there, and then for some reason having one of my friends walk in on me the next day naked and tied up, with my wallet missing.
I tried not dwell too much on what might compel someone to get their jollies from restraining another human being...
It might be fun to tell a person you're attracted to: "I wanna lock you in a bedroom and throw away the key"... but to actually fantasise about making that a reality is a very large step removed.
It might be fun to tell a person you're attracted to: "I wanna lock you in a bedroom and throw away the key"... but to actually fantasise about making that a reality is a very large step removed.
I would be afraid of being left there, and then for some reason having one of my friends walk in on me the next day naked and tied up, with my wallet missing.
A valid fear, hence the trust part.
I have tried it but it's not my thing.
It's not a matter of trust, as I trust my fiancee, I just don't really enjoy it.
I do enjoy however tieing her and it has been done on a few occasions
It's not a matter of trust, as I trust my fiancee, I just don't really enjoy it.
I do enjoy however tieing her and it has been done on a few occasions
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