Ever watch The Pickup Artist?
Of course, any guy caught at it denies it. But it's a tactic. Put a girl down so that you in effect raise your status above hers. Then she wants you.
Interesting point. The Pickup Artist is one of the most disturbing shows I've seen on TV... I think any guy willing to engage in that has to be seriously desperate or worryingly sociopathic.
They prey on the weak and those with low self-esteem... no conquest at all really, more like a slaughter. A conquest is a meeting of equals on fair and clear grounds, whereas The Pickup Artist techniques are dirty and exploitative. I can't bare to watch it actually.
And what you highlighted, whether meant unitentionally or intentionally, is exactly what was happening to IHR.
Still, beginning a relationship like that is a bit like building a house of cards, isn't it? I guess the point is, no relationship is intended in the first place.
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