No, I would have said the same if it had been a male Janeway. In my opinion she was one of the captains who more or less wanted to do all on their own and most of the time just let her crew ratify her decisions, without really giving them the chance to convince her otherwise. Yes, she had alibi discussions, but in the end you seldom had the feeling that her officers changed anything about her opinion. Granted all Captains did that to a certain degree and in the end it's their job to make the decisions, but she was the worst in my opinion. Maybe she appeared that way because she didn't had a strong enough first officer.
All the other captains had luxuries that Janeway and the Voyager crew didn't. The other captains could afford to spend more time ferreting out viewpoints. Janeway couldn't, considering the fact that they were 75,000 light years from home and couldn't afford to waste any time. And Sisko didn't let his crew change his mind, and neither did Archer, really, or Kirk. Picard was always more of a diplomat/mediator.
I'm not sure about that less time point. In the end often the decisions she had to make were similar to those the other captains had to make. While I agree that most of the captains stand by their opinion after a staff meeting, she was the only one I had the feeling didn't even really listen to her officers most of the time.
(BTW You have to love the fact that every time a male says something negative about Janeway he automatically becomes a sexist.)
Janeway is sort of like Hillary Clinton-she's damned if she does, and damned if she doesn't. If she hadn't been as strong as she was perceived, then people would have been criticizing her for being a "weak woman". Because she's strong and confident (perhaps a *bit* too much) then she's accused of being brash and overconfident and not a "woman".
That's all fine and I would accept kimc accusation if I really had said something about her not being a woman, but all I said was that I think she was overconfident, the same thing I would have said if Captain Janeway's first name had been Kevin for example.