That's partly due to detection techniques, but what if it turned out that the Earth is a statistically very unlikely outlier? It might solve the Fermi Paradox.
Consider the number of stars in our galaxy that make up the galactic "habitable zone."
Estimates suggest that there could be as many as 40 billion Earth-sized planets orbiting in the habitable zones of Sun-like stars and red dwarfs in the Milky Way. -Google AI summery-
The galactic habitable zone
Even if a true sister Earth orbiting an M class star at the right distance, tilt, and ellipsis counted only 0.001% of those estimated "habitable" planets, that's still 4 million possible planets with life developing exactly the way it is believed to have done on Earth. Then there is the number of galaxies with similar galactic habitable zones, and we are looking at trillions of possible mirror Earth-like evolutions.
If we consider the possibility that interstellar and even intergalactic travel for humans may actually become practical at some point in our technological evolution, how much further ahead of us would an intelligent alien species have to be to have, not only made it out into the habitable zone neighborhood, but then to find our single planet and decide to come visit us, by now?
I believe studies have suggested that our sun isn't that much younger than our galaxy and that Earth, by cosmic standards, isn't that much younger than the sun. The first true life forms to appear on Earth happened almost immediately after Earth cooled enough to support life.
We may indeed be an outlier for early development of life, but what are the chances that we are in the earliest 0.1%? Even a headstart of a million years could put an alien extraterrestrial race significantly ahead of us technologically. There may be 4 billion planets with cave dwelling primates on them, and only a million with intelligence and technology more advanced than the Iron Age, but give an Iron Age culture a million year headstart and imagine where they may be compared to us?
In cosmic, even galactic time scales, a million extra years is like crossing the finish line by a 100th of a second lead. In terms of technological evolution, that's going from running fearfully from fire to colonizing the next planet over, and then some.
-Will