I thought Enterprise actually did do a pretty good job of giving us stuff that was futuristic today, but still believable as being 100 years before TOS.
That's what I liked about Enterprise myself. They managed to find that balance between future and past. That's where I say I am flexible. I was really curious when Enterprise was first announced how they would handle that. How could they make a show that was 100 years pre-original series and make it believably futuristic from today. But kudos to the Enterprise team, by and large they pulled it off.
I always wished Discovery had found that same balance. I think they went a bit too far on the futuristic side and sacrificed the prequel element a bit too much. The current show runners do seem to be trying to shift that balance back a bit more. And I give them credit for making the attempt, even if sometimes it seems a bit clunky.