@Rahul, I have stayed out of this conversation but as a mod I need to step in when things get unreasonably heated.
I understand that you are quite unhappy with how this conversation has gone so far and that you feel that your posts have been misrepresented.
That is not an excuse for personal attacks, though. Saying "I wish I could throw personal insults at you because you deserve it but alas..." is just a clever way of attacking somebody personally while trying to avoid an infraction.
Don't do that.
I'm not going to pursue this any further, that was as far as I'm willing to go. But I am angry about that. Not that that wasn't obvious from my post.
There absolutely was no way to read @Locutus of Bored's carefully worded and nuanced post on black soldiers serving in Confederate forces as pro-confederacy.
Again, I get that you feel your posts have been misrepresented but you don't fix that by making these outrageous claims.
In your post, you are basically complaining that others have overreacted to your posts or misrepresented them. Wouldn't you say that the above quote is essentially doing the same?
Pretending the 60s were perfectly fine for minorities is clearly not what @Nerys Myk meant, in fact I think he meant the opposite when he suggested minorities shouldn't be marginalized at the "back of the bus".
Which was in both cases kinda' the point. I REALLY don't think either of them has those tendencies. That they were so willing to project them onto others with different viewpoints in this debate was the thing making me angry though.
I hope it was obvious those over-the-top accusations were meant as a way to show how mis-representative the argument has gotten, and that there was essentially no debate anymore, just a straw-man type of misrepresentation with quotes used out of context to further someone's own agenda.
I have no desire to continue that. I think I made my point clear, and I regret I had to go that far for it.
I suggest people calm down and give each other the benefit of the doubt here unless they want an infraction and/or the thread shut down if this can't be discussed in a civil manner.
Agreed, and taken to the heart. I'm not going to hold a grudge against anyone. But I hope something like that won't happen again.