I actively hated this episode, in a way I haven't with any of the previous installments. Though not because of the MU Lorca twist which everyone else seems to be up in arms about -- that didn't bother me (yet, we'll see where they go with it).
The big problem: I've said from the beginning the only thing that could make me give up on this show is if they did some awful "kill your gays" thing with Stamets/Culber. After that neck-snapping a few weeks back, I saw all those interviews that Culber would be back, those quotes from the showrunner about how he's openly gay and they are NOT doing the "kill your gays" trope, and the audience should just be patient. I thought to myself "I hope they're not imagining that just tacking on a scene where they get to make out one last time in spore space makes this OK -- they get that they have to ACTUALLY bring him back, right? They must understand that just allowing them to say goodbye does nothing to lessen the tacky grossness of killing this character that way, don't they?"
I'm still holding out (fading) hope of an actual resurrection for Culber, but this felt pretty final. If this is it... what a complete and disgusting betrayal of everything they claimed they wanted to accomplish with this couple.
I am such a hardcore ride-or-die Trek fan. Outside of this issue, I can't imagine how bad Discovery would have to be for me to even contemplate stopping. But to have waited for decades to see gay characters in Star Trek, to finally be introduced to such an awesome couple, and if this is the way that relationship ends after only a handful of episode... betrayal is the only word for it. Betrayal of the audience and betrayal of the essential Star Trek values that is the only thru-line I need this franchise to have.
I've tried to defend these writers and view their decisions in the most favorable light, but if this is it for Culber, they really are hacks who have no idea what they're doing.