The end of Firefly's "A Man Called Jayne" seems appropriate for this thread.
JAYNE
Don't make no sense. What...Why the hell did that Mudder have to go and do that for, Mal? Jumping in front of that shotgun blast (to save Jayne's life). Hell, there weren't a one of them understood what happened out there. They're probably sticking that statue (of Jayne) right back up.
MAL
Most like.
JAYNE
I don't know why that eats at me so.
MAL
It's my estimation that...every man ever got a statue made of him,
was one kind of sumbitch or another. Ain't about you, Jayne. About what
they need.
It isn't about Star Trek's, or Firefly's, or One Tree Hill's producers or writers or actors. Its about the audience and what they need.
While Star Trek has always had its shortcomings when it came to gender equality, (Gates and Sirtis reportedly asked during the Robin Hood ep, why the only two actors in the cast trained in theatrical swordplay had to fight by crashing villains heads with pots / vases

) I still cringe when I watch that final TOS episode, "Turnabout Intruder" when Faux Kirk has this debate with Spock at the trial of Janice Lester.
SPOCK: Sir, there is only one issue here. Is the story of life-entity transfer believable? This crew has been to many places in the galaxy. They've been witness to many strange events. They are trained to know that what seems to be impossible often is possible, given the scientific analysis of the phenomenon.
"KIRK": Mister Spock, have you ever heard of a case such as described by Doctor Janice Lester?
SPOCK: Not precisely, no.
"KIRK": Oh. Assuming that you are correct in your belief, do you expect Starfleet Command to place this er, this er,
person in command of the Enterprise?
After watching 70odd eps of TOS, it is unfortunate the series has to end with an ep that suggests women could never captain the Enterprise.
When I was young, one of the neighbor kids suggested we play Tom Sawyer, he'd be Tom and I would be Becky Thatcher.
"No way!" I exclaimed. "Becky never did anything fun in those books. You can be Tom and I'll be Huck Finn."
It was for that reason, 40 odd years later, I approached Nichelle Nichols in the autograph line at a Trek Con and thanked her for being such an inspiration, such a role model for that young girl. To show me you didn't have to be "the guy" to have adventures, have fun, have such a professional stature amongst so many fellow professionals.
The thing is, abusers may have hoisted themselves on their own petard. Their various shows may have helped to inspire young women (and young men ) to realize their self worth and refuse to be cowed by the powerful that prey upon them.
MAL
It's my estimation that...every man ever got a statue made of him, was one kind of sumbitch or another.
Ain't about you, Jayne. About what
they need.