Umm...no. The debate isn't whether it's Star Trek or not, it's whether or not it can be argued that this latest version constitutes a reboot.In short, if the owners of Coca-Cola would piss into a coke bottle and sell it as Coca-Cola it is Coca-Cola, they own it they decide, you can put as much thought into it as you want, you don't get a say. You can criticize the product, you can buy or not buy it, still, that piss is now Coca-Cola.
As in, does it diverge in a more fundamental way from the shared world of the previous series, or does it overwrite previous stories in a Significany way, and does it seek to reinvent Star Trek.
Batman Begins is a Reboot of the Batman films. Star Trek 09 is a reboot of Star Trek in general. Amazing Spiderman, Superman Returns, then again in Man of Steel, etc.
If we used your Coca Cola analogy, we might as well consider the word reboot meaningless, and never speak it again.