That's funny: I was dating a girl in South Jersey at the time, and we saw the movie at a theatre not far from Deptford that kicked things off with showing TMP-TUC over 2 nights, capping off with the midnight showing of GEN! We went to it, and I remember being excited with the ads saying "Boldly Go before anyone else in the galaxy to see Star Trek Generations!"
I agree with trying to cram so much in. There were moments that really needed to have some time to them, to breathe and resonate (1701-D crashing needed a little more time to it and cut a different way to allow the audience to appreciate and absorb what happened. Riker looking up through the bridge dome to the sky was brilliant, but felt rushed, as well as Kirk's death feeling like it was done quickly to get to the next set of overwrought dialogue).
I understand that it was a time constraint to get the movie out to capitalize on TNG, but with just a little more time on script and rethinking the direction, it could have been much better and would have been a nice passing of the torch and bridge to First Contact, making a one-two punch for TNG movies.