Well, this thread had descended straight to.....
I was raised in Protestant fundamentalism and fear of hell was pounded into me at an early age. Now, while still a Christian (a Catholic specifically). I hardly think about it. If someone is trying to control me with the fear of hell now they are doing a damn poor job of it. The thing they emphasize most is the worst thing about hell is not fire but separation from God and all the good things that go with God as in love, light, truth...beauty.
Psychology abuse aside which is serious, I don't know why people are overly concerned with what other people believe. I don't sit around wondering if Karma is real for instance.