That's easy for some people. Some of us are actually being denied rights and have to worry about being murdered. So forgive me if I can't forgive my enemy, they don't consider me worthy of life.Unfortunately, it creates a martyrdom status. There was a great interview (I'll try and find it) with a former member of the Westboro cult who stated that she left not because people kicked her out, and "put her in her place" but because she received warmth, compassion and positive regard, despite her beliefs.
And, with due respect to another human being, I will always listen.