You're trying to argue every individual aspect of the film in a vacuum as opposed to relating to each other. Any of these alone is innocuous. All of them together is a theme. TWOK is purposefully way more militant, pound for pound, than what came before or after in TNG.
Not before. Sulu is a trained combat officer, IIRC. In Corbomite Manuever they run weapons tests in their spare time.
Buys? Where did you get that?
The episode.
KIRK: No matter how long it took, he came out with multitronics. The M-5.
MCCOY: Right. The government bought it, then Daystrom had to make it work.
They use the violence of others against them. They render violence an impossibility. There's an enormous difference between that and attacking them to make them stop.
No. Everytime someone reached for a weapon, the weapon hurt them. If it wasn't for pain and harm then neither side would have stopped. That's like saying "Hey, I only shot him every time he tried to pull a trigger. I wasn't violent." They render violence an impossibility because they did it first. (Organians suck.)
Yes, we're excited that our heroes will live and the threat (to the Federation at large and the Enterprise in specific) has been eliminated. We're pretty excited when Kirk beats up Khan in Space Seed. Or when Nomad is beamed into space to explode.I don't know what movie you were watching, but I saw a long scene where the Enterprise rises over the stern of the Reliant to swelling music and we see closeups of Kirks mouth shouting "fire" while the Reliant is gleefully blown to bits. Speaking of which, I'm pretty sure they could have blown the Reliant the rest of the way up to stop Genesis. It's not like it was TNT in a container. If you drop it it doesn't go off. It was a specifically programmed sequence of reactions.
Also if you remember (as in BoT) Uhura calls for Khan's peaceful surrender.
That might have been a way to stop Genesis, I'll agree. It's implied that the wave once started is independent of the device, however. Maybe.