Thank you very muchI did some searching online. I believe it was ST - Unlimitedcomic: "An Infinite Jest" (January 1998). It's been a while, so my synopsis might not be perfect. For instance, I forgot that the catalyst for the story was an argument between Q and Trelane.

Good point, "who would win" arguments can be very interesting and i would lie if I said I didn't engage in one or two of them at the one point or another. Also because I just noticed it, when I wrote "Interestingly pretty much all the people who later want to study chemistry or physics absolutely hate biology." I only meant the ones I know, not generally all future chemists and phisicists.Haha, fair point. I guess it's the fervency that I don't get; I love a good "who would win" argument (Death Battle is honestly a favorite channel of mine for the level of research they try to put into things, even if I don't always agree with the results), but it's all in good fun to me.
Yeah, okay that is definitely a difference. I am currently reading the immediate post TF novels and wondered how old he was by then. As it turns out he is 80 by The Fall.Even if so, though, that's maybe 2 or 3 years? Vs. over 20 years for Picard. Different environments, different metrics. They're both great captains.
Huh, I seem to have a pretty bad memory of TOS...Not canonically. The Making of Star Trek (the source of a lot of fannish conventional wisdom) said that he was the youngest-ever captain of a starship-class vessel (i.e. a large capital ship like the Enterprise rather than something smaller like his destroyer-ish first command). But that was probably just a handwave to reconcile Hollywood's desire for mid-thirties leading men with the fact that command of a top-of-the-line ship would usually fall to more seasoned officers. It was never actually a story point in TOS itself.
I guess she could have also meant the ship that Kirk temporarily commanded in Inception. MaybeI don't consider TFA as part of my personal continuity, so there won't be all that much conflic there.Elizabeth Dehner said that Kirk "asked for him" (Gary) "on your first command." That phrasing implied that it was a previous ship, though some fans have assumed she meant the Enterprise, because the only other mention of Kirk having a prior command was in TMoST.
Those three ships are all different tie-ins' separate conjectures about what his prior command was -- the Saladin from DC's "First Mission" annual, the Lydia Sutherland from Vonda McIntyre's near-contemporary but incompatible Enterprise: The First Adventure, and the Oxford from DC's later "Star-Crossed" storyline -- which doesn't necessarily contradict either of those, because it shows the beginning of Kirk's command of the Oxford, while the others show the end of his tour aboard the ship in question and his transfer to the Enterprise. So he could've commanded as many as two of the three.