I gave you my examples to back up my POV, and what you paraphrased there was just one (from Uhura, pointing out how it was illogical for Spock to express condescending surprise at her acting like a human being). Maybe you could provided some examples of your own?
When McCoy expresses incredulity over Spock being able to sense the deaths of the Vulcan ship in the Space Amoeba episode Spock then takes a shot at him over how humans can feel little sympathy over large amounts of death.
Patterns of Force, Spock ends the episode listing off all the great butchers of history (like they're all perfect examples of Humanity) and Kirk and McCoy just laugh.
Enemy Within, Spock makes fun of Rand for nearly getting raped and no one minds.
Off the top of my head.
Just repeating opinionated statements as if their facts doesn't leave much room for discussion out sideof 'Yes it is! No it's not!'
Oh, and they just mentioned how the TOS crew tended to argue a lot and butt heads with each other. 'Tis deh canon.
Well, to be fair a lot of those conflict characters were one-shots who were never seen again.