No, I'm merely putting it all in perspective and context: what happens in real life and in the show. The fact that children may have died in Sisko's attack has no clear hold on the moral debate over his actions. And yes, his actions and decisions deserve scrutiny. Civilians die in war, and their deaths are often considered justifiable. Generals won't hesistate to attack a target just because because people who either have not or cannot consent to the conflict are present. In universe, SF's record of arresting and prosecuting people who make decisions based upon one or other understanding of Realpolitik is very weak. And to be clear, the Federation never put Worf on trial for destroying the transport. The Klingons asked for a hearing for extradition.
The point being that Sisko HIMSELF, not starfleet, not the Klingons, said that worf was at fault. And a few months later he turns around and commits a deliberate attack on children. Cant' you see that Sisko's action is ten times worse than Worf's? In worf's case it was an accident, in Worf's case he was having nightmares about it. Sisko has neither extenuating circumstances and he's even guiltier still since as worf's commanding officer, he should have known better.
Do you realize now how much worse Sisko's situation is than Worf's?