Yeah, one is never sure if T ' Pol is reluctant to speak up because she is ashamed of having been violated or because she doesn't want people thinking she can mind meld. Not to mention a careful distinction between the actions of the individual who assaulted her and the vast majority of the minority who would never assault anyone isn't clearly presented. This episode is somewhat typical of the ST franchises dubious reputation of being progressive. They mean well but are disconcertingly tone deaf.