^Which is not a very satisfying response. The problem is that he was treating gay people as an "issue" rather than simply as human beings who had as much right to be part of the universe as anyone else. What Berman never figured out, or maybe wasn't motivated to understand, is that the way to deal with it is not to make it an issue at all, but just to treat it as natural and normative. Write romance and attraction and relationship beats the exact same way you always would, except occasionally have them be between people of the same sex. It really is as simple as that, except in the minds of people who see GLBT people as some exotic phenomenon rather than just part of everyday life.
Here's my question, though. And it's an honest question, not a backhanded way to say "let's not show them gay people on screen!"
According to the statistics I've seen, it's estimated that around 3.5% of the US population is LGBT. That's a significant number -- around 8 million, I think -- but still an extremely small percentage of the overall whole.
Now, in the context of
Star Trek, what we see on a week-to-week basis are the adventures of one ship's (or station's) crew, which is such a small sampling of the human population at large as to be statistical noise. On top of which, even if there are claimed to be over 1,000 people on a ship, we interact on a regular basis with less than 20 of them.
My point being... aren't the odds that most, if not all, of the people we run into during the show are going to be straight, just on a statistical basis? Simply because we haven't seen an openly gay crewmember amongst the command crew of the few ships we've seen, is that any indication of their prevalence in the
Trek universe? Or necessarily even of the producers' attitudes toward the LGBT community?