Would You Date A Porn Star?

[Jetfire]

I thought this would be an interesting poll, I believe Dark Journey mentioned this...

I wonder if the answers here would be very different if the question was changed to "would you go out on a date with/have a one night stand with" a porn star. I don't think I am going out on a limb much here to say a lot of the guys here on the board probably have a good deal of experience with porn, and probably have favorite "actresses". If you got a chance to have sex with your favorite starlet would you jump at it?

Or would the answers change much if the involvement in the porn industry was at a more respectable level. Would you have a problem if your girlfriend was a softcore star or posed for Playboy. Would you jump at the opportunity to have sex with the Playmate of the Year if you could?

I don't mean just a one night stand...something that would lead to a serious relationship.

 

[Mr. Laser Beam]

I *think* I could, if I could be assured that she was clean and tested regularly.

Sure, I'd be a bit nervous about the fact that she's getting nailed by other guys onscreen, but that's just business. They may not even get much pleasure from that, despite what they're instructed to show in the film.

And as I said in the other thread...do those guys do things like buy her flowers? Take her out for a nice dinner? Go for walks and hold her hand? Listen to her talk about her day? Comfort her when she's sad? Raise a family with her? Actually LOVE her? I think the answer to those questions would be 'no'.

I do know one thing, I would never watch one of her movies.

 

[Tim]

Pork, yes (with plenty o' prophy). Date, no.

 

[Jetfire]

And as I said in the other thread...do those guys do things like buy her flowers? Take her out for a nice dinner? Go for walks and hold her hand? Listen to her talk about her day? Comfort her when she's sad? Raise a family with her? Actually LOVE her? I think the answer to those questions would be 'no'.

I do know one thing, I would never watch one of her movies.

This is why I say yes, to be that guy.

I agree, I could not watch one of her movies.

 

[Kommander]

If the situation presented itself, yeah, I'd go along with it.

Also, why do you people keep qualifying it with "only if no diseases are present?" Anyone could have something, and half the time someone says "I'm a virgin," it's a lie. Porn stars are tested regularly, non-porn stars aren't. Porn stars are probably less likely to be diseased.

 

[Data Holmes]

Yes.

 

[The Castellan]

Hell yes. And I'd watch her movies, especially if she's sitting next to me.

 

[sidious618]

Oh, no doubt.

 

[Jono]

I would go out on a date with a porn star, though her job would be of little consequence on whether or not I would go out on another date with her.

In some way I think it would be easier dating a porn star than a ordinary movie star.

 

[Spot's Meow]

No. Does it really need an explanation? Because I don't want my partner having sex with other people.

 

[Jetfire]

No. Does it really need an explanation? Because I don't want my partner having sex with other people.

No you don't need to explain. I can understand that. I don't know why I put that in there.

 

[auntiehill]

No. Having sex for money, whether on or off camera, is not a trait I find attractive. It's rather sad, actually, that someone would have so little self respect.

But I'm definitely a minority, there. I've always valued dignity and self-respect more than money.

 

[Bears Discover Fire]

No I would not date a porn star, and the fact that they have sex with other people for a living would be the least of my hang ups in a relationship with one. I have to deal with them daily through my work and with a few notable exceptions, most are highly unpleasant personalities and deeply dysfunctional, bordering on or well into psychotic. To date one would be a detriment to my own sanity and happiness.

 

[Joshua Howard]

Nope. If she isn't fit to rule the world, she isn't fit to have a share in the rule of my home... and I wouldn't date someone who I deemed unfit in matrimonial context.

 

[sbk1234]

I wouldn't date a porn star again.

 

[Cicero]

I would not date someone who had taken part in the production of pornography. I view sexual activity as very private (except when discussed clinically), and would prefer to be involved with someone with a similar value system and view of such activity.

Beyond this specific instance, even, I wouldn't date someone who had willingly engaged in extramarital sexual activity, or who would want to (I'm not sure how I'd feel about someone who was divorced, but would have no problem becoming involved with a widowed person or sexually abused person providing we had similar values).

I'm not sure how I'd feel about someone who works or has worked as an unclothed or semi-unclothed model, too; I find it difficult to imagine a confluence of our opinions.

 

[Skywalker]

Sure, I don't see why not, as long as she's up front about it from the beginning, is a normal and adjusted person outside of her job, and insists that the guys she, er..."works with" wear condoms during, er..."work."

 

[Kestra]

Nah, not my thing.

 

[JuanBolio]

Probably, if I liked her well enough and she felt the same about me. Her job would take some getting used to, but I think I'm big enough to get over that kind of thing.

 

[Captain Ice]

Nope. Not my thing.