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Will Free Love ever make a comeback?

^ I believe that's called "LIFE." You go out into the world, you meet people. You keep meeting and interacting with people until you meet someone you like and they like you back. It's scary, it's risky and at some point everyone has to do it. Some people have it easier while other people constantly struggle. You make the best of what you have and keep on trying. You do your best with what you have, where you are and you just LIVE.

It's not a mystery, for God's sake.
 
But doesn't that only work if the entire world was embracing freedom and tolerance? If people don't like your views on sex and they have power then it's really hard for people to live the lives they want to live if they go against what the mainstream wants. Then you got to find someone who also shares your own values which can be hard if your raised in the wrong culture that would be welcome to that. I doubt many people living in Iraq who wanted to live the life of hippies would find it kind of easy to do over there or heck even here in America like the Bible Belt.

Then you got peer pressure from people who will want you to live like them and it seems kind of hard to actually find love or even casual sex if that is all your into. I guess the internet helps a little but I can tell you from experience the internet is not as reliable unless your living in a big city were you got more potential matches. If you live in area with few people you tend to just have to settle and then you got people like me who kind of fall through the cracks. Shy or has problems knowing how to interact with people because of trust issues and unsure as to what sex and love really would mean for me. How can I ever really find someone to love when I don't even understand myself?
Yes, everything would work better if the entire world embraced freedom. Yes, we live in a conservative age. Yes, life is challenging in any era. You just have to deal with it and advocate for something better in any way you can.
 
It's not a mystery, for God's sake.
It is for the people who aren't experienced and aren't sure how to start.

Were you born knowing how to date, and how to live your life with a significant other/spouse?

Of course not. Nobody is, and while the learning may come easier for some people, others may struggle, and then there are people who have no interest in this aspect of life in the first place.
 
"Will free love ever make a comeback?"

Dunno.

In the meantime, Paid Love seems to still be going strong.
 
Free Love in the 60's was called that because "the pill" gave women the freedom to have sex without the fear of unwanted pregnancy for the first time in history (outside of sterilization). Being young in the sixties was crazy fun and we women had such a sense of freedom about our lives, more than men did with the Draft hanging over their heads.
 
What's wrong with disco? (I guess you had to have been there :shrug:)

Those are memories I'm trying to repress, actually. :lol:

(true fact: They tried teaching us the Hustle when I was in sixth grade... :eek: :barf: )

Actually, my favorite memories of disco involve its death. To wit:

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(true fact: They tried teaching us the Hustle when I was in sixth grade... :eek:
I learned the hustle at some point... not sure now if it was the "social dance" unit in my junior high phys. ed class or in high school. Anyway, they brought the boys' class in and tried teaching us to dance. It was a disaster, both in terms of our collective ability to dance, and socially. And I discovered the boys' gym teacher, who most of the girls thought was pretty cute, had the most awful clammy hands... That said, I still remember a bit of how to do it (the hustle, that is; I thankfully forgot the rest of it decades ago).

As for Grade 6, that was the year the music teacher taught us how to do square dancing. That was fun, and helped me many years later, when I was learning medieval dancing in the Society for Creative Anachronism. There are a couple of the steps that are very similar to both kinds of dance.

Grade 6 was also when I learned such elegant dances as the bunny-hop, and I remember one day when we all decided (with the teacher's permission) to bunny-hop back to our home room, after the music class was over. As we passed the other classrooms and they heard us humming the music or muttering the steps to ourselves, both the teachers and students stared at us like we were insane.

But that school was weird anyway. The classroom used for French was part of the same larger room used for music, and it was only a folding canvas partition that separated them. So the French teacher taught us some French songs, and said, "Now sing as loudly as you can; let's see if we can drown out the music teacher next door."

So we belted out "Sur le pont d'Avignon..." and sure enough, the music teacher was a bit miffed.
 
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