I don't "hate" STID - that's far too strong an expression - but it's certainly my least favourite of the Kelvin films.
1) Tropes: When I went to see the film, the screening was held up so my friend and I got to sit around killing time by predicting what we thought the film would include. And it all did. Lens flare. Jumping off high things. Scraping large object and sparking. Someone shouting Khan....
2) The mysogyny. Uhura starts with with having an inappropriate and unprofessional "domestic" with Spock - because, women, you know, always prioritise the personal over everything. Her "speak Klingon" scene could have been cut in its entirety without affecting the film. Marcus does a bit better but had a breathy "little girl" voice and a naive "little girl" atiitude about Daddy not being mean to her (Try giving that dialogue to a man). Also completely gratutious underwear scene. (And no, a male showerscene would not have redressed the balance, it would just have been inappropriate too...but noticeably, that was the one that got cut). This was 2013. Should have done better.
3) Gratutious violence. I can wear the shooting-up of the meeting as dramatically more exciting than the more sensible (and efficient) lobbong a bomb through the window. The bits that make me uncomfortable are: Kirk hitting Khan repeatedly. he's surrendered! he's unarmed! he's not resisting! ONE punch to illustrate Kirk's anger: yes. Complete loss of control: No. Ditto Spock beating Khan to death. Just disgusting.
4) The magic blood. No, not because it cures but because of the ethics concerned. Did Khan freely consent to the use of his blood or was he coerced either by threats to his crew or by promises to protect his crew? After all he's only been allowed to live because his blood is of use. We see the stasis pods in some kind of facility at the end. Are these going to be treated respectfully or is that magic blood going to be too tempting? It seems to me that the ethics of our alleged "good guys" aren't very different from the ethics of the badmiral.
In conclusion: the film's too predictable and makes me uncomfortable