More specifically a guy that's already asked you(several times), but you turned him down each time. Because I've been giving this a lot of thought, and even though I was terrified at the prospect of marriage at first, I really want to give my child a good, stable upbringing. And I think he really deserves to have his father there every step of the way. Plus, said father is a wonderful guy, and I think I've been really unfair as to how I've been treating him thus far. So. Any advice? Because I could really use it. I'm so nervous I can barely sit still.