Mad Men is a work of fiction. And it is not an accurate depiction of the period. Being boorish and insulting to women and minorities was not the accepted norm in the real America of the 1960s. This was especially true in mixed company, to say nothi. Mad Men, in that regard, is a soft propaganda piece meant to portray Whitey in a bad light. Note that the longer the series ran, the more severely it humiliated the white male bosses, including Don Draper. And that was the point.
Regarding hypocrisy, in my view the space hippies are not above suspicion. They "get back to nature" by space travel. And of course most real hippies don't part with technology, either. They just jeer at those who produce it for them. Everybody with an extreme ideology has behaviors that don't line up with it.
Mad Men is (was) rather refreshing after a period of history marked by films and television shows which were saccharine nostalgia for the 1950s/1960s from people who were teens or children in those years. That period being the 1990s, with Forest Gump as a prime example. Leave it to Beaver was not a documentary. That period, in terms of actual social history, was far more like Mad Men than it was like other portrayals up to that point. It was the disconnect between the idealized portrayal, which their ad agency takes part in propagating, and the reality of what people were actually like beneath an outside portrayal, and a striving for that ideal they were supposed to be while not being it. And how in not being that, and in pretending to be that, the stresses and indeed pains it causes, and the problems it lets go on because to address them means the world is not what it is pretended to be. And treating women and minorities as secondary was what was accepted. It wasn't even anything militant, at least not all of the time. It was an instinctual assumption. "Of course women should stay at home", "Of course women should find a man, and quit their jobs to be a house wife.", "Of course, they [whoever they are] are children and aren't ready for equality". I'm a bit cross-eyed at the notion that the 1960s, an era noted for racial and gender inequality which was often aggressively enforced should someone even hint they might go outside of what a consensus would allow for them, was not boorish and insulting to women and minorities. You might use "ma'am". Splendid. Your father would also send you off to live with an aunt for nine months if you got pregnant out of wedlock to save the family from embarrassment, and expect to hand you off to a young man to stay at home and raise children. At work, you would be casually reviewed as a sex object and greeted with leering and comments. You wouldn't be accepted as a doctor or scientist, or anything more than a secretary. And for the few women that did break through, it was a fight against sexism all the way. And that is not even mentioning what minorities went through. And that's not even touching race. Even outside the Jim Crow South, the general view, if not barking racism, was a casual, dismissive racism. "Stay in your part of town", casual jokes and beliefs and expecting people to stay in a certain place. And on barking racism, Martin Luther King said the most segregated, racially hostile city he went to was
Chicago. But while Mad Men also portrays the blatant racism and sexism, it also portrays the bigotries and ignorances (including racism and sexism) that were subtle and ingrained and ubiquitous. And the fact that that requires this long of a paragraph to even somewhat scratch the surface of, to try to explain it, because you are stating that it was not like that, boggles my mind.
This is a sidetrack off the topic, perhaps, but c'mon. And heck, because of that sidetrack, I didn't even get onto the parts of the problems the hippies also faced and frequently embodied in regards to the disconnect between the ideal and how they were often actually acting, and the prospect that what they were criticizing was often fair but their solutions to them were often incorrect, if only because they failed to live up to what they set out to be. And the hypocrisies mentioned by people in the counterculture when interviewed later, such as the fact that male hippies were still expressing sexist assumptions and expecting their flower children wife to obey and hang back and feed them. I don't even have the energy right now.