Which is part of why Jellico never rubbed me the wrong way the way he sometimes is described. He was a good leader and his expectations followed with it. Picard likewise has a certain approach that inspires others to fall in line, rather than automatically demanding. I have worked for both, and aspire to lead with elements of both. This was not lost on me, though I doubt I could put such a phrase to it at the time. Attempting to rewatch from Season 3 forward it definitely stands out, and the interactions are weirdly off putting.