I never thought this would happen. I've always liked girls my age or a year or two younger. I went out with one girl who was a year older but it didn't last (mainly because she was psycho bitch with a foot fetish, eww.) But this is the real thing. This feels like a proper, meaningful relationship. I should have been dating older women all along.
She's ten years older than me and she has two kids. Just though I'd get that out of the way. A year ago I never would have dreamed of dating someone like her, but I've matured A LOT in the last year and learned a HELL LOT about myself. She moved into our neighborhood about nine months ago with her kids and their father, her husband. But he was only there for about three weeks and left after a series of rows. The first time I talked to her was not long after her husband left and she was crying in her driveway and I asked if she was okay and she looked up at me and smiled and our eyes locked and we both felt something in that moment. Over the months we talked more and more and I fell in love with her. She is amazing, like no girl...no WOMAN I've ever dated before.
The age difference doesn't mean much anyway. If I was her age and dating a 22 year old girl then nobody would bat an eyelid. Of course if I was my age and dating a girl ten years younger that would be sick and wrong, but that's completely different. We are just two adults finding our way in the world together.
Sometimes there can be a bit of a generational gap, like when she talks about the eighties and I can't remember them. The most spooky was when she told me she remembers seeing The Return Of The Jedi in the cinema when it first came out. Wow, I suddenly thought she was old then (though she doesn't look much older than 25.) But we laughed and it was fine. I told her I like the Star Wars prequels and she said they sucked and I don't understand because I wasn't "there at the beginning" but she eventually said she liked Watto.
The kids are cool. She has a girl aged 11 (or 12 maybe.) She is very smart. She was always watching The Fellowship of the Ring when I first met her. I asked why she never watched The Two Towers or Return Of The King and she said it was becasue she didn't have them. I thought that was a bit odd but realized that my girlfriend has been struggling financially since her husband left. I have been helping her out a bit (I got a new job in a gym and it pays well) and even bought her daughter TTT and ROTK. I don't mind.
She has a boy aged eight as well. He's a bit of a handful. He's short and usually quiet but sometimes he has tantrums and kicks his little legs out. He kicked me once but I was cool about it and I think this impressed his mom.
The sex is great. I want to spend the rest of my life with her, even if she'll be 60 when I'm 50. I don't even care about that.
Does anyone here date an older woman?
She's ten years older than me and she has two kids. Just though I'd get that out of the way. A year ago I never would have dreamed of dating someone like her, but I've matured A LOT in the last year and learned a HELL LOT about myself. She moved into our neighborhood about nine months ago with her kids and their father, her husband. But he was only there for about three weeks and left after a series of rows. The first time I talked to her was not long after her husband left and she was crying in her driveway and I asked if she was okay and she looked up at me and smiled and our eyes locked and we both felt something in that moment. Over the months we talked more and more and I fell in love with her. She is amazing, like no girl...no WOMAN I've ever dated before.
The age difference doesn't mean much anyway. If I was her age and dating a 22 year old girl then nobody would bat an eyelid. Of course if I was my age and dating a girl ten years younger that would be sick and wrong, but that's completely different. We are just two adults finding our way in the world together.
Sometimes there can be a bit of a generational gap, like when she talks about the eighties and I can't remember them. The most spooky was when she told me she remembers seeing The Return Of The Jedi in the cinema when it first came out. Wow, I suddenly thought she was old then (though she doesn't look much older than 25.) But we laughed and it was fine. I told her I like the Star Wars prequels and she said they sucked and I don't understand because I wasn't "there at the beginning" but she eventually said she liked Watto.
The kids are cool. She has a girl aged 11 (or 12 maybe.) She is very smart. She was always watching The Fellowship of the Ring when I first met her. I asked why she never watched The Two Towers or Return Of The King and she said it was becasue she didn't have them. I thought that was a bit odd but realized that my girlfriend has been struggling financially since her husband left. I have been helping her out a bit (I got a new job in a gym and it pays well) and even bought her daughter TTT and ROTK. I don't mind.
She has a boy aged eight as well. He's a bit of a handful. He's short and usually quiet but sometimes he has tantrums and kicks his little legs out. He kicked me once but I was cool about it and I think this impressed his mom.
The sex is great. I want to spend the rest of my life with her, even if she'll be 60 when I'm 50. I don't even care about that.
Does anyone here date an older woman?
