Anyone here agree with me?
Probably, but, when it comes down to it, it doesn't matter one way or the other since the movie has been made and it's doing pretty well with the viewing audience.
The writers did this 'alternate/parallel' universe thing as an olive branch to the fans of the pre-existing series, showing that, in fact, they do respect what came before. Some may argue this point, but they are fans, like us, and, like us, have their own interpretations of how the Trek Universe(s) work. They may differ but are just as valid. And happen to be lucky enough to be sanctioned by those with the official Trek rubber stamp.
Just think of it this way, in Twenty years are people still going to be having this same argument. Probably, but not about this film. They'll be complaining about Star Trek XVII and the recasting of
TNG. Besides those few lovable crackpots out there, we've all come to accept the other shows and movies as belonging to one continuim, despite the evidence of all the mini reboots that have happened.
Personally, I am glad they went this route, as it does reinvigorate Star Trek without totally rebooting and ignoring what came before. As is evidenced by
Spock Prime. But we have to remember that this is still just fiction that someone is pulling out of the air, and if they do it convincingly enough to disable your disbelief then it's a success. As it does for me. And if not, well, then it sucks to be you.