I didn't find the first episode disjointed or disorienting. Course I watch a lot of TV.
Pacing, I tend to not even think about unless it's really, really, really, really, slow and to be honest, for summer fluff, I was fine.
Since the show is more of a comedy/drama hybrid, I just took the antics as a part of the formula, but I can see why you didn't like him. (I his female counterpart myself.)
I guess I just tend to focus on the parts I liked and let all the rest fall away, and thus far I enjoy it enough to keep watching and see where it goes.
(Caveat: I timeshift everything I watch, so it's not like this is appointment TV for me or anything.)